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| Sat 26 Jun 10, 9:27 AM subette 2 yrs |
Does anyone else have a little extra difficulty with this? It's not impossible for me, but it is certainly harder. I am wondering whether it's partly to do with the fact that cumming makes my legs go wobbly so I have some kind of in-built anti-fall-on-my-face programming. The fact that it's easier to cum when I am on all fours (or all threes if it is DIY) maybe backs this up. But also, I tend to really tense my legs when I am close to cumming. Maybe standing / kneeling up stops me doing this effectively. I am also wondering where this is a female thing - since men cumming when they are kneeling / standing seems to be a common sight. Or do I just need to work on thise thigh muscles??? Any ideas?? Subette I want to reconcile the violence in your heart. I want to recognize your beauty is not just a mask. - Muse, Undisclosed desires | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:30 AM Muzzlehatch UK(TN), 7 yrs   |
Get someone to tie you up so that you can't fall!
Owner of The Croppery Dungeon and Breakfast. Organises The St Leonards munch Promotes The Club with no name | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:32 AM Scorpionic UK(BN), 6 yrs     |
Or learn to lock your knees!  | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:37 AM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs    |
I'm with you on the leg tensing thing here!!! I remember reading years and years ago in some teen mag that girls (women) find it easier to cum when their legs are straight - although there was no supporting evidence just a throw away comment about it. I'm looking forward to learning some new stuff from this thread! XxX | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:40 AM Manteau UK(S), 2 yrs  |
When herself cums stood up, she can't hold her thighs together and her knees always bend. I think (although I'm not a woman, so can't be sure), that a woman's orgasm tends to reverberate through her body and has a more total effect. Hence why women can ride a wave of them, and shudder several minutes afterwards... Men are so much simpler..<ahem> Suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great Calamities with cheerfulness, not through insensibility but through greatness of mind.
Aristotle | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:43 AM Miss_Poppins UK(RG), 2 yrs |
I can certainly relate to that problem. If I'm too focused on the fact that I might fall, there isn't a chance that I'll have an orgasm. I'm not too worried about it though - a change of position is easily done. I doubt it has something to do with your muscles. I'd say I've plenty of those in my legs and they still get wobbly. It would be sad if they wouldn't because for me the whole point of an orgasm is to completely let go for a tiny moment. However strong arms wrapped around me to prevent me from falling/trembling/collapsing usually help. Plus they give me the wonderful feeling of being small and protected.
Hab keine Angst, einen großen Schritt zu machen, wenn dies nötig ist. Ein Abgrund lässt sich nicht mit zwei kleinen Sprüngen überqueren (David Lloyd George). Edited 26 Jun 10, 9:44 AM by Miss_Poppins | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:49 AM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
Try leaning on something... I've found that helps.  | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:50 AM subette 2 yrs |
Hmmmm - sometimes I don't have permission to adjust my position... Subette I want to reconcile the violence in your heart. I want to recognize your beauty is not just a mask. - Muse, Undisclosed desires | |
| 26 Jun 10, 9:54 AM goodcatholicgirl UK, 4 yrs |
Exactly what i was going to write. It can be so bloody frustrating especially when its close but absolutely not going to happen, but i'm sure that adds to Master's enjoyment! If there's no chocolate in heaven ~ i ain't going! | |
| 26 Jun 10, 10:00 AM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs |
I guess that's one of the advantages of being the dominant - I stand, sit, lay, position myself just as I please, no permissions required.
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| 26 Jun 10, 10:49 AM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
You do know that after he's seen this thread, you'll only ever have permission to cum standing up or kneeling, don't you?  Crazy, but that's how it goes; Millions of people living as foes; Maybe, it's not too late; To learn how to love and forget how to hate. |
