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| 24 Jun 10, 8:19 PM CaptainQuo UK(AB), 2 yrs   |
Agreed. Spamming just gives all men a bad name. At times I wonder if thats one of the main reasons as to why I get nowhere on dating sites, aside from the general skepticism most people have of them. It really gets on my nerves when I hear female friends complaining about guys who, let's face it, are in the minority but who treat women this way. Meanwhile, those who are genuine get glossed over. It draws attention to a much bigger problem in social attitudes - women cannot be "active" while men cannot be "passive", both are wrong and cause inequality between genders. Men are still expected (at least by some) to insult and degrade women and themselves in order to get what they want. Whatever happened to simply being friendly and making good conversation?
On behalf of the male gender, dominalush, heres an apologetic hug. *hug* Edited 24 Jun 10, 8:27 PM by CaptainQuo | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 8:23 PM Jacques_Pierre 2 yrs |
What would be your professional opinion of the idea that may have been one of those imaginary golden ages, right way back when in the days of yore before the invention of the interweb, etc.? Jacques-Pierre | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 8:29 PM CaptainQuo UK(AB), 2 yrs |
I have no professional opinion because I'm not a professional, I'm a student I didn't say anything about "the good old days" either. Im too young for those, I'm only 23. | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 8:37 PM Empress_Martine UK(HA), 2 yrs £      |
Alway a whore,that maddona! | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 8:42 PM CaptainQuo UK(AB), 2 yrs |
Well, she did give birth to an illegitimate son. Am I the only one that felt sorry for Joseph? I mean, EVERYONE knew it wasn't his.
*note* If any religious peeps take offense, just send your hatemail in private, I'll get back to you after judgement day Web board topics are like Pokemon. Promote discussion, debate and let them evolve; they'll grow stronger. | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 8:51 PM thatboyspike UK(N), 3 yrs |
I always read Madonna as Maradona. And erm... on topic wise I think a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality is a great thing. The problem you'd have online and "advertising" it as such is that online isn't the real world and many people online have no social skills and will automatically associate sexual confidence with a slag/being a porn star. | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 9:14 PM Gentledom14 UK(CA), 6 yrs    |
I would have believed that most men on here like there women to be sexual. The guys on here that happen to send spitefull emails , will tend to be the ones who are getting there cheap thrills with 0 friend, no profile etc. Another thing from what ive seen, women themselves seem to give other women a hard time being sexual beings. far worse than any man does. From school to the office gossip, in my opinion women give each other a far harder time. As i said i prefer a woman that is sexual, and most guys on here would agree, otherwise we would be on virginsRus.com
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| 24 Jun 10, 9:29 PM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
I think most men probably want the best of both worlds. Their head's want a madonna to take home to mum, marry and have their chidren and not attract too much unwanted attention from other men. And their loins want a whore who will fulfil their deepest, darkest, most depraved fantasies (and have a few of her own to boot) but she'll have to be capable of leaving that part of her behind closed doors (unless he's taking her to a kinly club or party  ).Kinky cocks make creamy orgasms | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 9:33 PM CaptainQuo UK(AB), 2 yrs |
Hit the nail on the head there. One head wants Madonna, the other head wants....er, the other Madonna. Web board topics are like Pokemon. Promote discussion, debate and let them evolve; they'll grow stronger. | ||
| 24 Jun 10, 9:38 PM Manteau UK(S), 2 yrs |
Interesting thread. Commiserations that you're firstly getting the crappy e mails, and secondly you're not getting some grown up ones. The fact you are is principally because the same way male subs out number female Dommes by about a zillion to one, and Dominant men out number female subs by about the same; the same applies out in the world of dating.Surprisingly really when we're roughly 50/50 split. What? isn't that counter productive? If teh blokes know they're in competition with a zillion others, you'd expect them to lift their sights above the tits and read behind the words, and their true meaning...wouldn't you? Erm, nope. Many men revert to caveman mode. Even ones who walk with a goodly distance between their knuckles and the pavement, Therefore in their head they read 'Ahhhh attractive woman, gorgeous curves, knows what she wants' In their heart they read; Now, does she mean that at face value? Or does she mean don't even bother wasting mine and your time, because I won't be interested in you' 'Bugger it, in for a penny in for a pound, I'll ask her directly if she wants a shag, because she seems a direct gal' Instead of approaching things in a more measured, more egalitarian way... he hasn't seen you as a sexual equal, he's seen you as a fuck toy, and nothing more. Sad but true,and I offer my apologies for the species I am part of.. Madonna or Whore? Neither: You are you. Whatever you are, and a thinking man would take time to discover that, instead of his bombasity..
2p supplied Suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great Calamities with cheerfulness, not through insensibility but through greatness of mind.
Aristotle |
