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| 9 Jun 10, 12:31 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs        |
That sounds very pucker inspiring. Are you known for your pout and do we now know why?
Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. - Anon. | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 12:31 PM Aristaeus UK(RG), 2 yrs |
One day they will get it right! Sorry, that was a flippant. I've had the same MD for 35yrs. I trust him completely. | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 12:46 PM Ishmael UK(SE), 12 yrs |
It used to be a joke, I was not aware that there was a law against BDSM and drink yet, but it seems I am behind the times. Could you elucidate? The Boat Party is one of the very best SM events of the year, and it starts at 9pm on Saturday 26th June at St Katherine's Pier (North, downriver side of Tower Bridge). We dock at 2am. | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 12:57 PM submitman1 UK(SS), 6 yrs  |
I just take bottled water with me, i do not believe that alcohol and BDSM will ever make good companions as we all know the effects of drinking and shedding your inhibitions which could be problem worth avoiding, such as binge bondage and binge CP! I maybe in the gutter but I'm looking at the stars | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:09 PM Degenerate  UK(M), 5 yrs   |
I have one G&T at the start o the night and one G&T at the end of the night. If I drink anything else it's water or fruit juice. Usually I am too busy doing SM to drink more than absolutely necessary - partly because a sloshy tummy when playing is really unhelpful for me mobility/ freedom / clambering wise. I might make enemies for saying this, but I think it's fair to charge extra for nights which don't cover with bar takings in an equivalent way per head or they become unfeasible. IE I would welcome paying more to go to a fetish club where few people are drunk - I'd take it as a preferred option to, for example, encouraging more alcohol drinking. Probably paying higher entrance fee rather than paying silly money for orange juice, I reckon, as that encourages people to drink little. De
Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk Edited 9 Jun 10, 1:12 PM by Degenerate | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:12 PM CaptainQuo UK(AB), 2 yrs |
Depends what kind of event. Usually just Irn Bru or Coke. If it's Obedience School, though, Jack Daniels. Sometimes a little too much......but I don't tend to drink more than just one or two if I'm playing, then I stop completely. I only really get drunk if I spend the whole night just socialising and hugging the bar. Edited 9 Jun 10, 1:14 PM by CaptainQuo | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:24 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs |
I agree with this. I drink a lot when playing - non alcoholic wise, because of the exertion. It would really annoy me to pay £5 for a pint of diet soda throughout an evening, when I woouldn't mind paying "a bit more" in an entrance fee. As for the drinking in general - fet clubs are nice *because* there aren't usually *any* drunk people there - I've never seen anyone seriously drunk before. I've never seen ANY (admittedly, I keep to myself & mind my own business). Far different from a normal club night where some drunk puts his hands on your boobs while you are walking to the loo and you can't even punish him. LOL All in all, I think people are generally well behaved and sober-(ish).
Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. - Anon. | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:26 PM angellover UK(CM), 3 yrs |
Snap but minus the coffee... The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:26 PM LadyLibidienne UK(CB), 8 yrs |
As i am usually driving i tend to stick to J2O or juice, coke or good ole tea or hot chocolate. Occasionally at an evening party where i am staying over it's either Irish Cream or Peach snaps with lots of orange juice. At our parties it's BYO anyway but we emphasise that people must drink responsibly if they wish to play and if we thought they were not fit to play we would stop them. "And the tigers come at night, with their voices soft as thunder " | |||
| 9 Jun 10, 1:34 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs |
I think the only places I have ever seen people "not fit to play" are clubs where there isn't much serious play anyway. I think almost all clubs keep a pretty close eye out, thankfully. And bdsm'ers do seem to be a wonderfully responsible lot!
Life is not measured by the breaths we take. but by the moments that take our breath. - Anon. Edited 9 Jun 10, 1:36 PM by Ama_Sidero |
