Posted by towellady on Sun 6 Jun 10, 12:14 AM to towellady's blog.
I've found that the more pornography I watch, the lazier my fantasies become; I've increasingly found myself getting off on porn designed for the male gaze whereas I never used to watch it at all as an 'aid'. -I would happily create my own filthy fantasies that I'd mull over all day and revisit in bed later on. Thinking about it I do still do that but find myself attracted to the bestial side of BDSM porn instead of the erotic mind-fuckey part which is actually slightly more of a turn on for me but not really present in porn -or at least in the porn I've seen anyway.
So I'm making a pledge to myself to abstain from pornography and re-ignite my -not dormant- but neglected filthy imagination which provides richer and more colourful kinky scenarios than any porn director with a cellar and a St Andrew's cross could ever think up.
I'm a little ashamed of myself; a sexually creative mind is a gift and a pleasure and I'm wasting it by indulging in cheap tasteless boy-porn. Or is that snobbery? Thoughts?
| 6 Jun 10, 12:15 AM Creidhne UK(CV), 4 yrs   |
Imagination wins hands down. Porn is usually shit. With imagination you can do what you want, do things that probarbly aren't possible in reality. With porn, it's only there to sell to people who just want to masturbate, not much meaning behind it. Also in an imaginative way your acting out your own desires and are involved in them. Theyre unique and your own thoughts.
Edited 6 Jun 10, 12:18 AM by Creidhne | |
| 6 Jun 10, 12:17 AM towellady 2 yrs |
I'm also ashamed of how badly written that was. I'm tired and a little drunk, not that that's an excuse. My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! | |
| 6 Jun 10, 2:04 AM Filth_Wizard UK(RM), 8 yrs |
Girl-porn can be just as tasteless and unstimulating, I've found. The brain's where it's at. To deny it implies that it's wrong. | |
| 6 Jun 10, 8:37 AM towellady 2 yrs |
No, girl-porn's just a bit shit anyways.
My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! | |
| 6 Jun 10, 11:07 AM Polka_Doll UK(N), 2 yrs |
I tend to think most porn is just a little bit rubbish. I do have one or two things bookmarked on the old 'puter but I mostly watch it with a partner (I've found that some boys still get amusingly excited about the idea of their girlie watching porn. Bless.) or just to kickstart my mind down a filthy path. I've found my imagination can take me to much darker, sexier places than anything on celluloid. Doll "I'm a broken doll & you're the puppeteer, take control for me and wipe away my fears." http://tigertigerdiary.wordpress.com/ | |
| 6 Jun 10, 12:04 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
Porn has never interested me. Good photos of sexy ladies in leather etc. is enough to stimulate my arousal. Mostly though I just use my imagination because my fantasies are never depicted in porn anyway  'Kiss the boot of shiny, shiny leather' - Velvet Underground | |
| 8 Jun 10, 8:01 AM Spankeasy 4 yrs |
Porn doesn't do it for me at all. The imagination is a much better source of excitement KBO | |
| 8 Jun 10, 1:28 PM Miss_Despotic UK(M), 5 yrs    |
Watching porn is like seeing a film of a book I loved- it's just never ever as good as it is in my head. | |
| 8 Jun 10, 6:15 PM Dollface UK, 6 yrs |
Ha, this! Porn's good if I'm absolutely knackered or need a quick fix, but my sordid little brain has never let me down so far. "When you're going through hell, keep going." | |
| 8 Jun 10, 7:25 PM Mister_Chris UK(M), 2 yrs |
Ah... completely agree. Any photographer who says he's not a voyeur is either stupid or a liar. - Helmut Newton |
