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| Thu 27 May 10, 9:56 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £  |
As many of you may know I work as a pro sub but I'm finding lots of guys wanting me to dom them so I've started doing this and being a sub I am quite good at it. Mainly spanking and caning so far but today I've got a client coming who wants me to train him to adoring slave standard and I have a few ideas but he's booked in for 2 hours! Any idea's for slave traing as it's not really my field of expertise? Thanks for any advice given | |
| 27 May 10, 10:36 AM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
You've taken a 2 hour booking and you don't know what to do? Oh dear. "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness Edited 27 May 10, 10:38 AM by Lady_Anna_Bradford | |
| 27 May 10, 10:42 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
I'm more into spanking/caning people with some roleplay to be honest and I did explain this to the client but after seeing my pics insisted he didn't want to go elsewhere. I can do hour sessions no problem but 2 hours being dom is a bit harder for me as I'm really a sub. I have ideas but just trying to pick brains on here for a few different ones to make his session more interesting | |
| 27 May 10, 10:50 AM KnightToDreams UK(CW), 3 yrs  |
adoring slave standards? i can't think of anything to say here | |
| 27 May 10, 10:52 AM Cuteprincess 5 yrs |
I'm with Lady Anna Bradford on this. She put it very politely. I can only add, good luck with this one, you'll need it. Not really the best way to start building a reputation; a (new) pro sub turning Dom after a short while and then taking a booking that you don't know how to handle. Hope you can role play sufficiently, or for long enough to ensure your very new rep stays intact.
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| 27 May 10, 10:58 AM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 4 yrs £ |
Nina, When you first started I offered you some advice as an “old” hand at this and I told you it was not easy and every client is different. Now you are taking on work that you don't know how to handle, I must say that is not good, for you or the client! Where do I start, It has taken me years to master this trade and I am still learning. If you would like to call me I will see if I can point you in the right direction. I do feel though you should not be taking on what you are not comfortable with handling but if this the way you want to go I supose you have to learn somehow. | |
| 27 May 10, 11:00 AM Dominion UK(BS), 8 yrs |
well, it all depends what he's paying Pay tiny amount, then its ok, he wont expect much But if you are charging properly, then basically, you are well and truly buggered If it was me, I'd actually do that to you as well, and refuse to pay LOL I'd want my moneys worth 2 hrs is far to long 1 hr is ideal next time you'll know to stick to the 1 hr after all, your playing the dom, so its up to you, not the client, how long he stays | |
| 27 May 10, 11:19 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
Ok this isn't quite the way I thought this would go. So far I've had lots of clients since I started up and all have said they'd visit me again and some of them I've spanked and been dom with too. Everyone has been different. It's not like I know nothing having been around doms for years in clubs and dungeons. I am very good at role play too but a natural sub. All I posted for was a couple of new ideas not to be got at for booking someone in for a 2 hour dom session. All pro doms have to start somewhere and hopefully I'll learn and get better as I get more used to doing it. I'll post and let you know if my client was happy with me tomorrow. Then if he wasn't or wanted his money back you can all say "told you so" then. BTW I am cheap only charging £120 all in for 2 hours
Edited 27 May 10, 11:21 AM by Nina_Jay | |
| 27 May 10, 11:32 AM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
I don't think it is fair on you, or the client, to take a booking you can't fulfill and then post on a public forum looking for ideas on the day of that booking. It isn't professional and yes, of course people are going to say so. What did you honestly expect? That people would bail you out and spoon feed you ideas so you can dom by numbers? TV Katie has very kindly and patiently offered you advice. You would do very well to take her up on it and conduct and learn your professional business privately. This is not reflecting well on you at all by asking this sort of thing in public. If you are going to dom professionally you need to start learning, researching and practising *before* you start charging. That is what most PDs manage to do. The unscrupulous ones will take the booking and then find out how to do it. It also sounds as though you have been pressured into taking this booking before you are ready. Thought you wanted to try domming? Being dominant is as much about saying no as it is about saying yes. If a client is pressuring you into doing something you are not ready for you should take note and be cautious. ETA £120 for 2 hours is only cheap if you know what you are doing. "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |
| 27 May 10, 11:32 AM LadyPandoraCP UK(M), 6 yrs £ |
ROFLMAO and people wonder why professionals have a bad name in some quarters! You're not weird, you're just unique ... Clara, aged 9! | |
| 27 May 10, 12:05 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
BTW thank you for banning me from coming to the barn on the 5th but I still hope the event goes well despite what you think of me! |
