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Posted by GirlAfraid on Sun 9 May 10, 9:16 PM to the Ultraviolence group.
I know, in general, the denizens of this finest of groups are against what we might call 'structured play' favouring a fists/elbows/teeth approach (classy ladies, one and all).
To me, the cane is the most aboherent of all instruments of dominance, it's a particularly irritating sort of pain, there's all that bending-over-keeping-still malarky that seems to go with it, it's always a bit formal and lacking in violence init? The caning porn you see seems to appeal to those who think of their kink as 'the English vice', all gentlemen and white knickers. And there's the pain, the pain annoys me.
But Flashy, my dear darling Flashy, fucking loves the cane, cunt that he is. And so, head down, arse up (that's the way we like to fuck etc...) the cane comes out. He slashes the bastard thing across my back until I think I might faint from the pain of it all and, do you know, it's not that bloody bad.
Which leads me, neatly, to the conclusion that add a bit of fucking and violence and anything can be pleasant.
So, thoughts, recollections, hopes, dreams, all welcomed. What other shit can we make fun? I know there's not much of a question in there but ICs boring as hell at the moment and I'm sure if nothing else we can make this a wankfest.
| 9 May 10, 9:59 PM poutanaki UK(M), 10 yrs  |
I like caning.. I think... I've just been pondering it, because maybe it's a love/hate thing. I hate stingy pain, and prefer canes that are bloody big sticks rather than canes... but then that's rarely up to me. What I like in either case, are the marks, the lovely straight lines and welts. Those marks seem to linger the longest. Your so pretty when your on your knees. Disinfected, eager to please | |
| 10 May 10, 9:29 AM Sirebel UK, 5 yrs     |
I agree that caning porn is principally aimed at the role players. I'm not into the whole bend over malarkey, you get a much better stroke when she's lying down flat. If you like hard core cane porn then google mood pictures. Unfortunately, they got raided by the Hungarian police earlier this year (or was it late last year?) because of non-consent allegations and are no longer trading. Strangely, my girl doesn't like the smaller canes and much prefers the bigger ones. I bought one the size of a snooker cue at LAM last time and it's proved very popular. Must get a really small stingy one now for proper punishments. I don't know what's right and what's real any more | |
| 10 May 10, 1:43 PM Marvell UK, 4 yrs |
Yep. Sounds about right. Regarding canes, I am not especially excited by them. When one chooses to hurt someone, I can think of alot of other, more satisfactory methods. http://www.tigerclaw.com/images/P/19-05.png I first discovered the above when I was 15; how could I have known that being a supporter of poor quality west London association football would introduce me to such delightful weaponry? However I am sure you do not want to hear about callous well dressed young men engaging each other in UV, with all its homo-erotic overtones. Suffice to say, it has come in very handy for all manner of UV situations - erotic or otherwise. The idea that is has been used in anger adds something as far as I am concerned. A certain authenticity. "Overhead, without any fuss, the stars were going out." | |
| 10 May 10, 9:21 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs     |
I hate to admit it, but i love the cane. I love how it makes the tears well up, how cross it makes me, how much it fucking hurts and i love seeing the red welts come up as a reminder of what's happened. Bloody kills tho, duntit? mia, x "For a man to truly understand rejection, he must first be ignored by a cat." | |
| 12 May 10, 7:38 PM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
I think it all depends on whom, when and why.... Personally I love the cane... I love the fact I have to try and take a hard caning which rips my ass to shreds and I have to stay there silent and still as he does that to me.... the things he does to me while he waits for my arse to regain sensation before he sticks another 6 on it... and on and on this goes until his need is satiated. To me its massively erotic... but then thats down to the connection.... one of the very best bits is that the marks do stay.. oh yes they do.... some 3 months on I still have 4 rather delightful stripes across my bum... his mark's, and my medal of honour to show what I took for him... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh I do so love the cane. ~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~ | |
| 12 May 10, 9:17 PM miss_kitten UK(HA), 5 yrs |
If ever a truer word were spoken... I loathe, fear and am repulsed by caning. There is nothing that I hate more (apart from oranges and birds, but that is another story). And what you said about it not actually hurting that much, you are so right. It is nothing compared to that kick to the ribs or thigh when the world stops from the pain and you actually think oh my good God he's actually broken me this time... I'm going to die from a punctured lung and not be able to explain why to the ambulance people... if I am allowed to call them... It is the most irritating, niggling pain that I could ever suffer. It is like the mosquito of pains when you are desperate for sleep on a hot tropical night and it buzzes and annoys you. Kick or punch me and I fall down at your feet and take it. Cane me and I rage and lash out and scream and shout like an insane banshee. Unless it is on my ribs as that somehow isn't quite so bad. Anyway... It has become such a loathsome thing to me I have become all text book and proper about it and think about positions and places to take it and warm ups and correct breathing and headspace. Although that is about as likely to ever become reality in a house where you are more likely to turn water to wine than to receive a warm up and a following of instructions on how to best make a kitten happy. These are angry, random ambushed swipes generally where the only warm up and warning is being grabbed by the hair. But do I fantasise about it? Yes I do. I think about being able to contain my anger (not that it matters) and I think about those bloody purple grazed welts and I think about the total disregard for me and my enjoyment (ha!) and the look of satisfaction when he's done what he wants anyway and beaten me up some more for fighting back. | |
| 13 May 10, 5:21 AM River_Deep UK, 6 yrs |
I have always listed the cane as, that naughtiest of words, a hard limit! Detest it that much I have never been able to cope with it. Maybe it is because I have never had the right connection or reason to be able to deal with the pain it inflicts.
Recently, and following a conversation with a friend, I have began to think that maybe I will be able to soften up on this point! Christ I hope I am right or there will be fireworks and Ultraviolence for sure RD xx It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it | |
| 13 May 10, 10:00 AM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
I love caning for a couple of reasons (but definitely need lots more practice with it). It's one of the tools I can use close up (normally staning right beside him) so I can see his face and his reactions really clearly, which I like.
The cane's quite versatile too. Can be used in so many different ways. My favourite thing to do with it at the minute is to deliver '6 rapid'. Six hard strokes one after the other with no break. The reaction to that is brilliant. I can actually see the pain building as he moves his hips forward away from it, stays there while the pain lasts, then pushes his butt out for more as the pain subsides. It's great to watch @Strictly_SnM discussion group | |
| 13 May 10, 1:59 PM chelsea UK(NW), 5 yrs |
Dear GirlAfraid Hi, hoping you are well and having a good week. Agree with you completely... absolutely despise canes with a vengeance. Yet there they are; always at the forefront of the sadist's thoughts, always the first implement used for punishment... always abhorrent in every way. However... They always fill Him (whoever He might be at any particular time) with such a glint; one standing legs spread, head down and somehow absorbing that awful, tear inducing; gut wrenching, skin tearing, despicable pain... So we work so hard to endure it seems obscene... and perhaps that is exactly what it is in it's very basic and English way; Obscene. Have a beautiful day Love and peace. | |
| 13 May 10, 3:36 PM xxIvyxx UK, 5 yrs £ |
For me it depends on the situation and who I am playing with, I hate the physical pain of the cane, but the fact that I am taking the pain to please someone else makes me very very horny. Also I had a judicial caning (theres a blog about it on my profile if you want to read) and the build up and tension of the situation was what made it an amazing experience. The cane pisses me off if it isn't used for a good reason but in the right way I feel it can be wonderful  I also on occasion quite like the typical CP scenario with white knickers and been a young school girl, if the age play dynamic is right and there is some kind of pervy dirty sexual element, along with my punishment for been such a naughty girl. xxIvyxx |
