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ETA: My name is David and I'm a Dominant who loves to do wicked things to submissive women

"I'm not jealous- just bitter and twisted "
"Stercus, stercus, stercus moriturus sum!"

Edited 1 May 10, 6:30 PM by Master_Chocolatier

Ok so, popped in, subscribed, pondered for a few and can't think what to write so I am just typing away hoping, at any moment, that inspiration will strike and I will have something to say before I get to the end of this long sentence even though I am vamping for even more time and anyone reading this aloud must be Well out of breath by now but hey...

I'm a londoner originally, with hindsight I feel this has gone a long way to my inclinations taking so long to come to the fore. There was the usual sense of something missing, that there must be more of...well, there just has to be More. And there was. Is.

I'm trying desperately to avoid all the usual wording here but the plain fact is cliches are cliches for a reason. They aren't necessarily a negative thing and so, with that in mind, I have felt that dominatory instinct for as long as I can remember. Along with always being very independant, always questioning things/never accepting 'because' etc as the definitive answer. Especially as a child.

I was a late bloomer in the consciously active arena, as far as outright bdsm is concerned. I was always sexually dominant but other things cropped up along the way completely randomly, out of the blue; finding out that such and such wasn't averse to you spanking her behind during sex. And then wondering, (that first time), where the hell That came from. Also biting, scratching harder than was strictly necessary, that kind of thing.

These were my first glimmers that there was, indeed, more. Again though, with hindsight.

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I've just noticed I'm rambling. Perhaps hold back so there's more to say later eh...

Suffice to say, it's all about self-control first and all else will follow if the mix is right. For me anyways.

I'm also looking forward to what this brings out. Good luck with the group.

Regards, Maz.

Enjoyer of Niche Pleasures.
Cardiff Munch

Great to see this group has been set up, I hope to see it grow.

Manchester FAB Munch
Dark Play Group - a group for less mainstream kinks
I am Fuckwit McFuckwit of the Clan McFuckwit, and I have come to take your faith in humanity!

After much trial and error i've realised I am a Dom/Master.

Look forward to chatting with you more =]

Oh God it happened again

Never been one for doing what I'm told always questioned everything and took my own decisions. Looking back now I realise that I've long favoured the more physical side of things, scratching, hair pulling biting kind of thing but for a long while didn't take it any further. I've been in a relationship for a long time, family, home all the trimmings. A few years back @Endorfiend started mentioning some long held fantasy stuff about being dominated, I was always fine with the "tie me up" stuff, well apart from the praticalities of actually doing it but was very wary of impact play. A few years ago I read something on the dynamics of domination/submissiveness which started me on the road to a better understanding of the use of control and pain within sexuality. Followed this up by buying a few bits and bobs then we had another baby so left it all alone for a couple of years until a few months back when, after a particularly fun evening involving a cane and a number of dressing gown ties, I started to whisper things about rope and domination in her ear. Managed to keep my nerve and jumped in with both feet a load of rope and some impact toys. A couple of hours later and it turns out I'm "scarily good at that".

We've opened up quite a few bottles and released lots of Genies since.

I'm new here as well - hope most needed stuff is in my profile, but some of the other bits of me are bona fide rocket scientist, and out of date IT skills, plus a deep interest in arguments about free will and the nature of consciousness... that usually manages to end most conversations.

Cheers

Siglorel

See worlds on worlds compose one universe, observe how system into system runs