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| 16 May 10, 10:36 PM BasicJ 7 yrs  |
So long as they the world has mirrors - I'll pass on the public nudity! Why is it most nudists seem to be the very people who make one feel eeeuuuggh! The nudist thing that cracks me up is naked people walking around a supermarket with trolleys....'getting back to nature pre-structured -society', 'living like nature intended'? erm - in a supermarket? And why are they almost invariably German? In truth there isn't a single person on the planet who loooks great naked who does not look even better clothed - especially in evening dress or tux. | |||
| 16 May 10, 10:40 PM Dandyphile UK(NG), 3 yrs  |
Unfortunatley, this is far from the truth. Some of the older kids at the club used to bully me and picked on me for being fat. And in the outside world, so did the kids at secondary school. So long as society insists on reminding those who eat too much (for their own individual reasons) that they are disgusting, asexual and ugly, forever shall they stay self-hating. The current trend that makes me want go out and KILL are articles in trash magazines applauding celebrities for loosing their baby weight in a matter of days. THEY ARE EVEN DEMONISING MOTHERHOOD NOW! However, I continue to rebel against these unjustifiable constraints by being one of the most, fabulous fat birds in the known universe. x Edited 16 May 10, 10:41 PM by Dandyphile | |||
| 16 May 10, 11:01 PM smoofing UK(SW), 2 yrs |
i love being naked  i am one of those people that loves being naked when the other person is dressed . which dosent mean i don't like my partner naked, i love them naked too. but i do enjoy those times when i am the naked one. it's many things; it's childish, it's vain, it's submissive, it's free, relaxing, exciting and attention seeking all at once. more probably hehe being naked, relaxed in company is just so warm and yummy. being naked as part of a sex-play feels delishiously naughty. i've always been envious of the naked confidence of life models. one day i'd like to try that from the other side of the drawing fence. have never been to a nudist place either, it's an opportunity i'd love to have. I did once plan to go to the 'starkers' club, but wussed out at the bus stop lol s'the kinda thing i joined here for, doing such things on your own is bound to be more difficult.
now ive ordered my ticket for the CFMN event
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| 16 May 10, 11:26 PM Elan2007 UK(B), 5 yrs |
I am usually relaxed and assured about being naked. It is quite contextually specific. The story related in my earlier post, was a nude in public ,everybody else dressed scenario. I guess it is highly dependent upon who and how many are looking. CFNM has been a vibrant blast!!! Being caned in the nude in front of an audience was just something else..... Edited 16 May 10, 11:29 PM by Elan2007 | |||
| 16 May 10, 11:51 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
I love what you say here It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |||
| 16 May 10, 11:57 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm a little suprised that when everyones naked together, the environment can be something other than supportive (although ind you, I've been at events where people have had something to say about other people when they're naked and it's really not nice...it takes a lot to go naked in public and it's so horrible when people chose to be anything other than supportive of others in such an environment!) I too really hate how women are applauded for loosing their "baby weight", it's almost like the magazines that applaud them are saying "well done for quickly hiding the fact that your body changed, albeit as part of a natural and beautiful process!" I read somewhere once that the biggest issue people have with their bodies is the way that they change and they wish they had the body that they had X ammount of years ago. This is something I can relate to very muchly. Recently a friend said to me "how would you feel if you were a size 10" to which I replied "I would feel like the most powerful woman in the world" but as great as I would feel, I'm cautious to put myself through the process of such a transformation as I've been there and done that and still felt bad which would suggest to me that it's maybe mind over matter (?)...(I'll let yas know is I ever find a happy medium grr lol) It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |||
| 17 May 10, 12:00 AM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
yes yes yes yes and yes!
at least when nekkid, the worry of how clothes don't flatter you becomes somewhat irrelevant. I remember when I started puberty and I hated how my shape was evolving and I used to think "life would be so much easier if everyone was nakid"...I was never able to find clothes that fitted me well It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |||
| 17 May 10, 10:24 AM beachdom UK(KT), 2 yrs |
Interesting thread....From experience people seem to be very prude about being naked ! But it seems ok to be spanked, perhaps this because its more main stream and being naked will never be.....
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| 17 May 10, 6:41 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
I never thought of it like that but yeah, the fact that I find being naked more humiliating than being spanked is almost kinda sad (as in boo hoo) in a way! It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice Edited 17 May 10, 6:42 PM by totallycoverme | |||
| 17 May 10, 8:36 PM Lady_Lucan UK(L), 4 yrs |
Being Irish and dominant, enjoyment of public nudity is not well starred  They that love not Tobacco & Boies were fooles. |
(on reflection, maybe my parents were taking me to the wrong shops coz they couldnt handle the fact that I needed womans clothes at the age of 12...so be it lol)