Daddy_Dom_Dynamic's profile . Daddy_Dom_Dynamic group posts
| 2 May 10, 5:55 PM DaddyDan UK(M), 2 yrs  |
For me, a huge part of being a Daddy Dom is being protective of my little. | |
| 2 May 10, 7:20 PM lahmai UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Actually I think that for me, a Daddy Dom situation might be safer to some extent because of the element of nurture involved. The 'cold' types of Dom/Domme who don't nurture can be differently attuned to their subs' emotional needs, perhaps. It's maybe about matching needs: YKIOK. Some subs might not want to be nurtured. I can understand why some people find themselves very vulnerable when they 'down-age' but a. I don't do that and b. It's possibly similar to subspace, which I do. And I think that perhaps with experience, subspace becomes safer. I'll do anything for a lollipop... | |
| 3 May 10, 12:20 PM successfu1 5 yrs |
I do think there is a rawness in the Dlg dynamic that results in a vulnerability that can be more difficult to emotionally defend oneself against for sure. But if that gets expolited is really down to the Daddy in question surely? | |
| 5 May 10, 6:12 PM unnatural_disaster 4 yrs |
Seconded. We littles all have a grown-up side that retains a duty of care towards our younger selves. Difficult as it may be, there are times when the older self has to take a step back and objectively decide if the younger self is being treated appropriately by the person to whom they have handed over their trust... and - if the answer to that is "no" - to take action to resolve the issues or end the relationship. There are situations that can complicate this further. For example, my young self is my Daddy's little girl, but my older self is his slave. I have to take on another sort of persona entirely in order to take an objective view of the dynamic between us! This is all beginning to sound rather like a case of multiple personality disorder! However, when there is a facet of us that is as vulnerable as a child (or, indeed, a slave), it is prudent to be aware of the stronger part of ourselves that is able to guard the interest of the weaker. | |
| 10 Jun 10, 2:04 PM Master_Rik_uk_berks UK(RG), 4 yrs  |
as a longstanding Daddy in this lifestyle I would like to add a pennies worth. being a Daddy for Me is about totally caring for a little one, even to the point where a Daddy does absolutly everything for her, obviously the younger ages require much more time patience care and understanding, I also truly believe this removes even the hardest of a girls exterior, which can then leave her very vulnerable to a Bad Daddy, this is when a little one has to choose very wisely before she hops into the playpen,, how will the Daddy care for her, is He likely to abuse her, will there be other dynamics that take it beyond care and attentiveness, so the ever important part of communication is very important, everybody can be hurt by some thing, maybe thats a trigger reactions to feelings she didnt know excisted or a Daddy taking her beyond her comfort level but in general, if you have a caring Daddy that you trust and adore, then He will never intentionally hurt His baby girl, but there are some out there that might, a mind is like a piece of chocolate, you make it cold, and it becomes harder and cant be broken you hold it in your hand and keep it close to your warmth and it will melt, and form to your hand like a velvet glove, all Daddies have that choile as much as any little one how warm or cold life can be Daddy Rik | |
| 10 Jun 10, 10:20 PM Purrverse US, 7 yrs |
Sometimes- it's what I'm scared of, definitely! I think that it can work both ways- if someone's in little headspace they may not be as good at communicating (or may not communicate at all, depending on age) and therefore it's frighteningly easy to overstep a comfort zone without knowing and without getting feedback. At least, it seems like that's a possibility. I don't know if it's always a case of Big Bad Top- I'm sure it happens sometimes, as it does with any submissive type situation- I just also think that sometimes things go pear-shaped! "I can't tell if you're playing some kind of feminazi mind fuck game on me or if you're trying to seduce me." -Sex and Death 101 | |
| 10 Jun 10, 10:24 PM Adorabelle UK(PR), 2 yrs |
The fear of being more vulnerable as a little is what's stopping me from pursuing this further at the moment.  "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." - Dr Seuss. | |
| 12 Jun 10, 3:11 PM NotTheOne UK(TA), 2 yrs |
Here we go again, its always the dominant male that's the bad one I have found the opposite, that there all too many "littles" that will be the ones using the relationship in an abusive manner. This can run from those who think "daddy" is synonymous with "sugar-daddy", to those who use the status of little to abdicate all responsibility completely and just blame daddy for everything that goes wrong, and make it so no matter what daddy does its wrong. Would take one hell of a special girl to entice me back into a d/lg relationship these days I stared into the abyss, the abyss stared into me. It blinked first. | |
| 12 Jun 10, 4:07 PM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs  |
I am talking from someone who has been hurt by a daddy in the past I didn't see him as a sugar daddy I saw him as the love of my life. There are the manipulative littles I've watched enough at play so no it's not all big bad doms but this dynamic more than others I feel can leave the sub/girl bottom etc at her most vunerable Another one bites the dust. | |
| 12 Jun 10, 4:14 PM NotTheOne UK(TA), 2 yrs |
I think any relationship leaves anyone involved in a very vulnerable place, there is nothing special about which side of a d/lg someone stands in that respect. To be the daddy means opening up just as much as it does to be the little, being socially, emotionally and legally vulnerable. As a male dominant it can all to often seem that only one of those applies to females and or submissive females. I stared into the abyss, the abyss stared into me. It blinked first. |
