Money or Shopping (49)

ETA: To the OP: Double Domming is not a legal activity in UK. Seeing that you sound American, I thought I should make you aware of UK laws.

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Edited 26 Apr 10, 12:49 PM by Ms_Tytania_London

I never thought you'd be jealous of such up and coming new talent! Mind you,i think some of their revolutionist ideas require looking into. I must add that,i am working on a new list of charges/items for each scenario. The only problem will be discretion-it is going to look suspicious if you starting having daily deliveries from,Tesco's,Comet and other large outlets. This is in edition to parcels from Royal Mail and coming in laden with shopping.

Hold on-i will have to have a slave,otherwise with all the visits to shops,i'd have no bloody time to take any sessions!

Based on some of the discussion's I have had with male submissives I think this pretty much sums it up.

For some the physical act of handing over the money makes it feel too much like a transaction in that they have purchased a service and as such, even if they dont, they feel like that gives them a large element of control within the session.

In some respects I don't quite understand how buying a gift, which does more often than not appear to cost more than an average priced session, could not be seen as the exact same thing as handing over hard cash, but that is how they rationalise the transaction so I suppose as long as the PD is happy with that arrangement everyone is a winner.

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Nice advert masquerading as a serious topic, as if anyone is that stupid to think that a present that cost £100, is cheaper in their head then giving you £50, how it must make you 'giggle' to knowinlgy rip people off if it is true, knowingly over charging people to fulfill your greed.

I don't want to sound too sceptical but,the whole script comes over as being from some one who is having a laugh at BDSM.

To the lovely ladies who got back to me- yes you're right, I probably have given off too much of a sugarbaby vibe; during my degree (aka student loan heaven) I didn't really need money, so was happy to be taken shopping, for dinners, to spas etc but now I am in gift-overload, so it's occurring to me more than I may have encouraged my issue.

To the two men (I assume you're 'men') who a. spoke to the other lady rudely and b. had the audacity to attempt to defipher what my intentions were for this message.

You spend your time on a fucking internet forum; what level of complete honesty and comprehension do you expect to find through sources like this. I use words like giggle because I am young and still spend my days in a classroom, taking notes. I'm young you arrogant loser; I act as so. Don't ever again expect to be able to address me like that and not get bitched all over. Next time, I won't be so sweet.

I assume we have an understanding and if not; I will write what I want- it is your choice to read it and a choice that requires energy to reply to what I post. Get a grip for god sake.

Edited 27 Apr 10, 1:43 PM by Double_Hell

Well we wrote it togther & we are very different. Elissa is heavily into sadism, I'm not. For me it's more about fun; I enjoy thr latex, the clubs, the friendships- she has less patience for it all but is sadistic by nature- togther we work. But without fun, what's the fricking point? And I wouldn't be surprised if you 'sound sceptical' IC is the bitchiest fetish site I know, it was Elissa's choice to come on here, I'm not so much a fan. No guess as to why.

What a load of crap.

If someone is willing to pay cash, or gift, that is up to them, not you. For as long as the OP is getting paid or gifted they aren't overcharging.

Although quite how someone who doesn't see PDs can call it 'overcharging' is anybody's guess. Some people have stacks of disposable income. It's up to them how they spend it.

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