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| Mon 26 Apr 10, 4:50 AM Double_Hell UK(N), 2 yrs £   |
It makes me giggle how many men feel so anxious about even discussing paying with actual money, some of them will buy us gifts that cost double the amount we charge for sessioning, as long as they don't have to hand money over! One client will put money onto a pay-per-use credit card and give us that, but not cash.
Have any of you girls found this and to the guys-what;s it about It didn't bother me, I adore shopping something stupid, but as my degree is about to come to an end, shopping may have to be an extra activity as apposed to form of payment- the subbies are gonna have to suck it up & hand it over hehe xx | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 7:58 AM lisal 9 yrs |
Not much idea really. I've always paid cash - as have all the subs I am friendly with. My domme's clients are the same and it's not something that any of the PDs I am friendly with have mentioned I guess it could be that by giving a gift as opposed to cash it seems less like a commercial transaction to some?
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| 26 Apr 10, 8:01 AM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
Just don't give them an option, either they pay up or fuck off 
Senno Ekto Gamat | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 8:24 AM lustrum 2 yrs |
How charming. What a quality, decent wonderful person you seem to be. Thank goodness for dommes like you, serving a community need so sincerely.
Edited 26 Apr 10, 8:27 AM by lustrum | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 8:27 AM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
I know, I must be such a beastly character for thinking that men should actually pay these young ladies for professional services. Especially as they sound as if they are using the money to go through university. Shame on me.
Senno Ekto Gamat | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 8:49 AM lustrum 2 yrs |
Oh, don't be so hard on yourself. Not shame, surely? Shame should be reserved for those occasions you post like a self centred, self pubicising prat. If indeed that ever happened. Surely?
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| 26 Apr 10, 9:03 AM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
Thank you for making me smile  Your comments do not bother me, and I stand by my statement that if they need the money in cash and not in presents they should make this clear to the men involved.
Senno Ekto Gamat | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 9:33 AM lustrum 2 yrs |
Did you say that? let me see. Oh yes, you did, no denying it, my mistake. '...pay up or fuck off...'. So similar that it's hardly worth splitting hairs over. So I shan't. Have a really lovely day. | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 10:04 AM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
lol I didn't think anyone would be stupid enough to take me literally, as in *please say these exact words*. I was wrong there are people who will take me literally. I have no trouble admitting when I am. Hence my general amusement at your posts.
Have a good day in your literal life.
Senno Ekto Gamat Edited 26 Apr 10, 10:12 AM by Mistress_Avralivia | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 10:09 AM Ms_Tytania_London 3 yrs |
No, I've never had that problem, Double_Hell. it sounds like the sort of dilemma that would make any lady worry over to the point of wrinkles. I sincerely feel for you two in this hour of need. Behold my updated website , worms! Edited 26 Apr 10, 10:42 AM by Ms_Tytania_London | ||||||
| 26 Apr 10, 11:16 AM TVlynn03 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
No PD's i know,have ever had this problem.
You get a few adventurous souls who try do a runner,but they become noted!
If you have long standing clients,there should be no qualms over cash payments.
By the sound of your post,you are perhaps,giving the impression that your seeking Sugar Daddies,as opposed to serious BDSM players.
Speaking for myself,i would never have an agreement to be paid by cash top up. It's ok to accept gifts or thank you presents,but these are extras,not in lieu of the hourly rate. If you want to try a new approach then good luck. I would rather have the old traditional methods. |
