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| 25 Apr 10, 6:39 PM LadyPandoraCP UK(M), 6 yrs £ |
I look forward to seeing you again Aimee. With regard to dressage, it depends what the majority want to do on the day. Last year we ran the dressage comp at the Barnyard Club on the Sunday, which worked well.
Shakes head ... anyone would think I was supposedto know what I was doing!
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| 25 Apr 10, 6:39 PM LadyPandoraCP UK(M), 6 yrs £ |
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| 25 Apr 10, 8:10 PM sirguym UK(HR), 6 yrs |
That's good to hear, I hope you enjoyed your time away, from mid-May onwards there's a hectic programme of pet and pony-play, I hope to meet up with you sometime, somewhere ... Academy Incorporated: turning fantasy into reality, fast friendly, helpful, discreet service, with integrity www.academywear.com for retro adult school and maid uniform guy@tawse.com PO Box 135, Hereford, HR2 7WL, UK +44(0)1432 343100 [pi | ||
| 25 Apr 10, 8:13 PM sirguym UK(HR), 6 yrs |
That would be boring, and nobody wants that, surely .... Academy Incorporated: turning fantasy into reality, fast friendly, helpful, discreet service, with integrity www.academywear.com for retro adult school and maid uniform guy@tawse.com PO Box 135, Hereford, HR2 7WL, UK +44(0)1432 343100 [pi | ||
| 25 Apr 10, 10:39 PM Aimee_kitty UK(CH), 3 yrs |
i think a dressage would be a good idea as it diversafies the events a little and personally i enjoy controled form more then panting,sweating and sprinting. Plus the 'special girls' wouldn't have an advantage. ^_^ i'm sure you'll find the right balance when organising the event Lady Pandora but personally i wouldn't want to be in the special 'blokes in heels' catagory although i understand and accept if other people feel more comfortable making a distinction. Glad to hear there is such a packed schedual, i'll certainly make it to as many events as i can, i need to make up for 10 kinkless months! | ||
| 26 Apr 10, 8:07 AM LadyPandoraCP UK(M), 6 yrs £ |
Thanks, Aimee. I don't want anyone to feel categorised, left out, uncomfortable, etc., hence last year all the girls raced together. However, pony play seems to me to be one of the few occasions when special girls are outnumbered by real girls (no offence intended, but I can't think of a nicer way of saying it at this time of the morning!).
The comments last year were extremely valid and I will act to keep the majority happy every time, whoever that majority might be
You're not weird, you're just unique ... Clara, aged 9! | ||
| 26 Apr 10, 9:16 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
That sounds harsh! For anyone shocked I wasn't trying to kick a puppy in the head. It was another bloke pretenting to be one nipping my ankles and as I was a horse kicked out. I was not trying to hit him and we are good friends anyway. You've decided to handicap fizzyeau because she was at the end of the day faster than anyone there so why not handicap any TV's/TS's and let us all compete together after all you've got old, young, fat and thin women all grouped together. I'm not thinking of myself as unlikely to be there anyway but just any other trans people that go along to the event. Just a thought but had us t-girls finished last would anyone have moaned about us competing with real girls?
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| 26 Apr 10, 9:44 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Sorry just saw this comment and acting to keep the majority happy is not always the way to do things for example if you see 3 people picking on 1 at an event for whatever reason you'd take the side of the majority? I was told within hours of the races T-girls wouldn't run with real girls in future events and neither of us were asked for our thoughts or opinions so this came about through just listening to the majority. Had we all been involved in a discussion I'm sure a handicap system for faster ponies(girls or T-girls)could have been arranged for future events
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| 26 Apr 10, 9:52 AM LadyPandoraCP UK(M), 6 yrs £ |
As you are clearly not happy, I suggest you don't bother attending such a shambles ... perhaps you ought to try organising something yourself instead; then you might appreciate just how impossible it is to please everyone!
You're not weird, you're just unique ... Clara, aged 9! | ||
| 26 Apr 10, 10:10 AM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 2 yrs £ |
Like I said I'm unlikey to make one of these events anyway but I'm sure any new t-girls will be sad they can't compete with other ponygirls as that's what they've come along to be. I'm also not knocking the event as I thought last years was great and I was very impresssed with the setup and effort you and the others must have put into arranging it.
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