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The first time you saw him/her (33)

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15 Apr 10, 12:02 AM
frenchie
UK, 7 yrs

Manteau wrote:
The very first time I saw herself, I got out of my car to walk into the main entrance of the building where she was walking out of another door. We exchnaged smiles and a brief nod and hello..I fancied her then.

Later I contacted her via e mail to ask if she'd consider me to do some photography work for her. We met in a pub and chatted, whilst I went through my portfolio. I fancied her more and more. She was unobtainable. Also, unbeknown at that time to me, she was also involved with someone else who hurt her very badly. I did the work for her, and later would do more, and we kept in touch.

January 2008 (after she'd finished six months previously with the twat) we went for dinner. She was simply divine, astonishingly sexy, glided rather than walked. Conversation was extensive, we talked about everything and anything.

We didn't sleep together for a few weeks, but because we knew of each others proclavities (through previous e mails and IM's), I took along several ropes to the hotel where we arranged to meet. It was wonderful, and she simply melted from the strutting lady who got what she wanted with a smile and an assertive voice and manner; to a compliant, dreamy and deliciously purring, submissive girl.

Later she woke in my arms, her smile was enough to reinforce the feelings I had and still have for her. I know it all seems a bit soppy, but I really am incredibly privileged.

Ooooh I love that story :)

french_slave_the_Crucified is MmeDeSade

15 Apr 10, 11:23 AM
bighappygoth39
UK(WS), 2 yrs

We had been chatting online for over a month before I actually met mine....Of course I had seen photos of him, chatted on the phone,etc. So it came time to meet him. We had arranged that he would come and see me and only stay for a few hours, just to see if we got on, I was sure that we would only end up as just friends because we got on so well and I knew my track record of not actually being attracted to men who I got on great with.... He doesn't live too far away so it wasn't too much of a hefty journey for him, and he got to my town by train. I was very nervous indeed, more nervous than I'd ever been before. He'd text me to say he was in the station so, with butterflies in my stomach, I went.... And there he was... I know it sounds so corny but I actually gasped, but of course I didn't give in to it there and then. We hugged and then headed to mine.. On the way there he gave me such a smile, a smile I see all the time now. We got to mine and we chatted and before he was due to go home he got on his knees and begged me to make him mine.....so of course I did! That was last November and it has just got better and better since as we've got deeper into the D/s side of things, and I can honestly say I have never been happier with any man. We bring out the best in each other and to me that's all that matters in any long term loving relationship. I had to wait a while and at times it felt like I'd never find him but it was well worth waiting for indeed! :) x
15 Apr 10, 11:32 AM
jen001
UK(HD), 8 yrs
i messaged owen on b.com to say he was hot...he replied with something along the lines on "but you arent fat or american" (i feel he may have had many memos from randoms...)

we then met at lash when it was at the green rooms... he was absolutely yummy, wearing lipstick and smudged eyeliner, i was besotted...but i would have eaten his young nubile body alive (plus he looked like he was too hungry and might eat me!)

we then kept in touch with a few memos here and there, a catch up message and me just watching and waiting for him to grow up!

when my last relationship broke up i wondered if he was single so, sent another message pretending i was working up near him and did he want to meet up... he did! (wow, i really needed to find something to do round there now!)

we had dinner, as friends... we had lots of fun, as friends. i realised i was in love with him, he asked me to move in with him (from my cute little loft apartment, but i like being single and available..) i accepted, and now we have a brilliant life and a cute cat baby :) (we are expecting another cat baby in about 6 months...this is the first owen will hear of this tho!)

i am still as in love as the day i fell in love, actually scrap that, more so.

how pukeworthy am i today?

j xx

i dont look like *that* in person? shit :(

15 Apr 10, 11:52 AM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

Pretty much all my relationships have started by either the girl asking me out (younger days) or I have been drinking quite a bit to overcome my natural shyness. I often look at women who seem interested but somehow I just cannot make the first move :(

'Kiss the boot of shiny, shiny leather' - Velvet Underground

15 Apr 10, 11:53 AM
bondagekitten
UK(G), 6 yrs

I have to say it's been lovely reading loads of sweet stories.

http://www.bondagekittens.co.uk

15 Apr 10, 3:03 PM
Tea_Kitty
UK(B), 2 yrs
This is a beautiful thread!

I met my new boy through CM. We spoke online and on the phone for around two months before we met (I was away for uni) and arranged for a weekend together as soon as I got back.

Just a few weeks ago we met and he came down for the weekend.

I was late meeting him off his bus so I was rushing to meet him, knew I looked a mess as I got there, but he just gave me the biggest smile as soon as I saw him.

Of course I'd seen pictures, but, he was better than I'd imagined or any picture could convey, if slightly shorter!

I'm always a bit shy when I first meet people, but we hit it off and ended up playing and sleeping together the first night.

It was an intense and gorgeous weekend. Though neither of us had any money, we managed to keep each other happily entertained!

He's my first proper submissive (I've always been sub before), so I had been a little nervous prior to anything happening, but we just fitted together so well in role I have no further concerns whatsoever.

We decided there's definitely more to us than DS, but to see how things go - there's quite a hefty distance issue.

He's coming down again tonight for the weekend and I just can't wait to see what happens from here. Wish me luck!

15 Apr 10, 7:11 PM
Lady_Em
UK, 2 yrs
I had just started back at college after working for a year and he turned up in the common room to see a mutual friend. (He had left the year before)He was blond and puny.. the exact opposite of my preferences. We continued meeting up in a large group over the next few months and he and I became the floor show..... verbally sparring, which convinced our friends we really didn't like each other.

Having worked my way through most of the blokes I was temporarily unattached so he asked me out in front of everyone - you could have heard a pin drop! I agreed as I was at a loose end and he walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight. It made my knees buckle. Our friends gave us 3 weeks but we have just celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary and yes he can still make my knees buckle just by kissing me!

He decided that I was worth trying because he had "strange" needs and I was considered to be "generous with my favours" (remember this was 32 years ago. Not everybody had sex with anything with a pulse). It works because I like sex and can guarantee the required performance from him by the judicious application of cuffs and other interesting items.

15 Apr 10, 7:22 PM
paige_jellybean_me
3 yrs
The first time i saw DarkGirl was at the manchester munch a year ago at the time i didnt no we would be together lol so it was just nice to meet new people though i do remember thinking shes cute. and the first time i met Uther was at the fab munch a couple of months later and thought he was good looking despite the beard lol but it all came together just after xmas when i had won tickets to lash and liasions and i got my first beating of Uther we became friends and well no we are all together and happy it was deffo the best thing to happen this year :)

The great object of life is sensation, to feel that we exist, even though in pain.

16 Apr 10, 12:11 AM
Rhubarb_Crumble
2 yrs
So far, this has been a fabulous thread to read. It is lovely to have something as clean and pure with no one arguing.

Please excuse spelling

Rhubarb has had two G&ts.

16 Apr 10, 9:30 AM
tallulahme
UK, 2 yrs

Ooooooooooo

What lovely stories.

The first time I ever saw ZDW I was captivated, he had been my brothers best friend for about 5 years and circumstances had managed to keep us apart. Then we end up in the pub for a brief imptomptu drink in the local pub I looked like shite and felt like shite.

The minute I saw him I was completely captivated, I couldn't take my eyes off him, completely magnetic, I tried very hard to concentrate on the people I was with but my eyes kept gravitating back towards him, within 10 minutes we were talking as if no-one else in the room, we kept going back to our respective parties of people to be polite but for about 2 mins then back to each other it was amazing.

My Mother said as we left you made a hit there.

I must have I left a 17yr marriage for him and he still fascinates me as much as the first time I set eyes on him.

T xx

“Do you really have to be the ice queen intellectual or the slut whore? Isn't there some way to be both?”
Susan Sarandon

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