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Slaves and Domestic Servants (35)

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18 Apr 10, 1:33 PM
Clyde1
UK(NW), 5 yrs

I think Plinth has just about got it right. I'd also like to add that being masochistic and submissive are not necessarily exclusive. I think the difficult bit in lifestyle relationships can be balancing vanilla and D/s elements. Whilst I would hope D/s underpins all of our relationship it is unrealistic for me to be in "service" mode all of the time, just as it is unrealistic for us to be in "whips and chains" scene mode all of the time. Real life is frequently about sharing chores but a real D/s relationship may be just about the Dom/me choosing when a little inequality may be appropriate, when a full on scene is appropriate, and when it is just down to who has the most time or energy after a busy days work.

Edited 18 Apr 10, 5:42 PM by Clyde1

18 Apr 10, 2:33 PM
sirguym
UK(HR), 6 yrs

littlenic wrote:
You want someone to live with you to do all your domestic work, for which:

There would be no financial reward for these duties. Wages if any, would be in the form of an occasional beating for exceptionally satisfactory work.

and presumably you're not offering any kind of love, affection or relationship?

Blimey, these slaves and domestic servants of which you speak aren't the only ones with vivid imaginations.

There are many who really are prepared to put in the work necessary, and look good doing it.

I've met several dozen over the years, at Miss Prim's Muir Academy, my and others' pony-play, club and Tawsingham events.

But you have to treat them with an appropriate level of respect, as you should with all people.

There doesn't have to be 'equality', that's not what they're seeking, but both sides need to consider they're getting a fair exchange.

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18 Apr 10, 2:39 PM
emark
UK, 9 yrs

From the OP's profile:

I'm seeking a Domestic Servant to work in my home on a permanent basis. This would involve cleaning, washing, ironing, gardening and some DIY. There would be no financial reward for these duties. Wages if any, would be in the form of an occasional beating for exceptionally satisfactory work.

So when you say there aren't any "real" domestic servants, you mean, you can't find any that are willing to work for you, for full time, with virtually nothing (either financial, or from a relationship point of view) in return.

If you want a real domestic servant, there are plenty available if you're willing to pay the going rates, I imagine.

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25 Jul 10, 6:42 PM
Original_Rebel
UK(CT), 10 yrs

I have served in a domestic role and enjoyed it

25 Jul 10, 6:54 PM
houseproudest
UK(SE), 4 yrs

i enjoy my domestic role too.. its actually nice to be clean..and most of my friends seem to think so too..sitting back feeling focused for this evening and ready to serve ..its a ritual for me but its so nice for it to be supported by another..

Pavement? Wowee Zowee!