Posted by Elvenkind
on Tue 13 Apr 10, 9:55 AM to Elvenkind's blog.
God, where to start.
A long, long time ago in a galaxy far away..
Seriously though... A few years back i was arwenNS as some of you may know, then i changed my name to Elvenkind. This was quite a big transition for me as things on the home front were not looking there best.
Ns and i have now split after 15 yrs together. Its for the best really. I'm going into the why's, how's, etc.
I will say this, its an amicable split and we have an 11 yr old to be good parents to. We're together on that part 100% of the way, just not as husband and wife but as mummy and daddy.
I'll sign off now as i have a day off and promised my son a day down the beach, collecting shells and bits of drift wood.
Take care and see you all very soon
Elvenkind xx
| 13 Apr 10, 10:08 AM goodghirl UK, 8 yrs  |
sending hugs and more love than you can cope with miss you xxx |
| 13 Apr 10, 11:22 AM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
It took me a very long time to leave the marital home and it was a decision made harder because i was leaving my kids behind. I took the decision finally because i thought the hateful nature of my marriage was poisoning my relationship with my children. For a very long time after I left i was sure I had done the right thing for me - but it still felt selfish and as if I was letting my tinies down. A couple of years on and I know I am healthier for being out of there and my relationships with the children are better too. I just wish there could be some appropriate friendship between my ex wife and myself. There isn't and there is not likely to be. Thinking of all of you. BeLuS My goal - to save women from nature (Dior) |
| 13 Apr 10, 3:22 PM hailstone UK(HD), 9 yrs |
I am so sad to hear you have split, i remember the early days in fems, you and NS were one of the couples i held in high esteem, only ever met you once at Nemesis, but you always stuck in my mind as a real lady, and the way your handling the split proves my judgement was right. Good luck to you both in your futures magsy x my fantasies are your reality.... my reality is your edge |
| 13 Apr 10, 4:42 PM druidic UK(DD), 12 yrs |
Sorry to hear you have split, but good to hear it is amicable  Hope you and the wee man have a great day down the beach xx FIFE & TAYSIDE MUNCH |
| 14 Apr 10, 11:38 AM Elvenkind 7 yrs |
oops. It's been a while and forgot about the settings.. Doh @ me. Miss you guys to.
See you all soon at some point in time.. I'm a bit behind the times really.. need a good seeing to ..oops did i say that aloud. Elvenkind xx a 4 foot, 11 and 3/4 inch elf. |
