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youre first pro experience bad or good (42)

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10 May 10, 4:07 PM
Lady_Anna_Bradford
UK(BD), 5 yrs

Powerpants wrote:
I think it's about getting that right mix of experience and enthusiasm - the younger ones can be enthusiastic but inept and the older ones sometimes go through the motions.

Age doesn't equate to experience...

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10 May 10, 4:33 PM
Powerpants
UK(LS), 3 yrs
Yes agreed. Not always anyway. I like ladies who don't plan the session to the nth degree and are able to react to situations. The first - and still the best - lady that I saw was able to do this. If only she lived closer!
10 Oct 10, 2:16 PM
knob69
UK, 5 yrs
subray, I think I visited Mistress Tricia in 1978 too (found through Forum or Rendezvous, I recall, and possibly under the name "Trisha", but definitely in Philbeach Gardens, near Earls Court).

This was not my first professional experience, but it was my first caning, a baker's dozen, each stroke of some considerable severity with me naked, bent over the horse, and applied so rapidly that I felt nothing until the 13th made contact, making me jump in the air and rub my groin not my bottom - all the pain seem to flood to the front. I think I had annoyed her by offering only £8.00! (she did not name her fee), based on the £6.00 which I had paid elsewhere seven years earlier for my first experience. There was of course no relief offered or permitted, not surprising considering the very small "insult" I had offered.

However it was money well spent and I have never forgotten the experience.

Edited 10 Oct 10, 2:17 PM by knob69

10 Oct 10, 6:19 PM
E_Beau1
UK(ME), 6 yrs

my first visit was fine. But as it turned out i wasn't sure myself what i wanted from the session and so i was a little disappointed.

It took me a few years to develop my fetish interests further and i've had fairly regular sessions since.

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12 Oct 10, 9:41 AM
stephen_sub
UK(B), 5 yrs
My first visit to a Pro-Domme was to a lady who, very occasionally, comes on here - so I won't mention her name. I chose her for the silliest of reasons - her website didn't contain huge numbers of spelling mistakes and grammatical errors!!

She was wonderful with me - we conquered a good many demons together - and I am so grateful to her. I have very fond recollections of driving back home, through the countryside, with a tingling back from her floggers, nipples that were as sore as hell from nipple torture (my favourite!!!) and livid stripes across my backside for some minor transgression. And after the session she would make tea and we would sit and talk and there was never any attempt to get me out quickly.

I owe that lady a lot - she knows who she is - and if she reads this, I wish her well.

12 Oct 10, 10:31 AM
rubberscot
UK(G), 6 yrs

I was quite nervous the first time, but enjoyed it, although the first few sessions with a Pro Domme were free (in exchange for other services). Since then I've had good and I've had average, but never a bad one.

Interestingly I wouldn't say free sessions were any better or worse that ones I've paid for. If anything, when I'm paying I'm seeking out exactly what I want so perhaps more likely to be disappointed but so far disappointment has been rare.

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12 Oct 10, 11:30 AM
Sam333
20 mths
My first session with a professional mistress was in 2000, it was a very good introduction and wet my appetite to explore further.

My second experience was absolitely brilliant, that was with another mistress from Shropshire, I never intended to submit just to one mistress, however the experience was so fabulous, I continued to session on a weekly basis for almost 3 years with her, great fun:) and great memories.

Since her retirement in 2006,I have continued to explore and have fun, met many lovely Ladies, only had a few blips along the way. Still exploring,still having fun.

21 Oct 10, 11:15 PM
RebekkaRaynor
UK(SW), 7 yrs
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My first pro session was slightly nerve wracking, but very exciting all the same. Having only played in private and at clubs, you are never sure if there is some sort of top secret and unspoken rule on what goes on once the doors are closed...

Thankfully, I have found that the only secrets are the ones I make myself : )

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22 Oct 10, 8:27 PM
Lucius_Sulla
UK(E), 2 yrs

Mine was horrifically bad, with a Domme about as sexy as cottage cheese.
22 Oct 10, 9:10 PM
Slave_Nano
UK(HU), 2 yrs
My first experience with Mistress Nemesis was a brilliant one. I had all the usual nerves leading up to the session but during the initial chat about my fantasies and expectations she was warm and open. Then when we went down into her dungeon she just took complete control of me. It was like she knew intuitively what I wanted and how to pull me into the scene she created for me. At the end it was like a revelation – I felt that she had got inside my head and knew exactly what I needed. Under her influence I just dropped into submission to this powerful, beautiful woman. I felt this was a place I belonged from the very start and I soon returned for more. It made me find out something about myself and I've never looked back - I submit to the same mistress to this day and have had an amazing experience serving her over the years. But, I shall never forget that first visit.

Edited 4 Nov 10, 9:48 PM by Slave_Nano

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