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| Incandescence |
How would you describe what S&M does for/to you?
I'm talking about purely SM activities so not taking into account any feelings of submission/Dominance etc but rather what SM (whether it be receiving and/or inflicting physical pain or emotional/psychological SM) means to/does for you.
Is there anything in vanilla life you would equate or compare it to?
I realise this is a really open ended question but I've done that on purpose 
| 26 Mar 10, 4:33 PM chastityslaveFE 2 yrs |
The only things I can compare it to are when I nearly died, and really great sex. When I nearly died, all my consciousness shrunk down to this one little core that was clever and observant as hell and it was that core that saved my life by getting me out of the situation. I get that feeling quite a lot when I'm really being hurt - particularly if I'm lay face down and restrained, I just go into this headspace where all the fluff and nonsense of daily life falls away and it's just me, and the reality of the pain and the knowledge that I can survive it, and the feeling that I'm incredibly strong, clever animal. This is the point I get to where I'm just accepting of the pain, and what others would call 'subspace' I guess. As for the really great sex, it's like I lose myself in the sensation and connect with some eternal part of the universe. I know that sounds a bit fluffy, but that floaty, unreal, out of control feeling where you've given up all self restraint and are just doing, saying anything that comes to mind. I love that with s&m, you can just let go. When I come out of the masochism, it's like when I've been exercising hard - I feel physically exhausted, but glowing with contentment and satisfaction and my body feels like a well oiled machine. It's a great feeling!
*wafts herself with a fan* |
| 26 Mar 10, 11:54 PM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
Wow, thanks for a great and in depth reply  @Strictly_SnM discussion group |
| 27 Mar 10, 12:44 PM tazallie UK, 2 yrs  |
For me it is a sensual emotional erotic rollercoaster. The feeling of the flogger striking my skin, the pain radiating from my flesh along my nerves changing as it travels to an intense pleasure. The burning heat of my skin reflecting how hot I feel inside. It's like a lovers caress but then it begins to become more intense, more demanding it builds until it's almost unbearable sometimes it is but sometimes it's not. And then my mind disconnects from the world around me it's just me Master and the flogger. Each lash each flick each hit melds into the next the pause between lasts years and nano seconds. And then I usually float away completly and nothing exsists but the pleasure and peace the pain gave me. As to a vanilla equation. I can't think of anything that is the same. Orgasms come close but they are so different. Perhaps the closest it comes to is continual or forced orgasms a pleasure so intense it's painful. Tazallie Edited 27 Mar 10, 12:47 PM by tazallie |
