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| helena_helena |
Yet another public affair, yet another public break-up.
It is interesting to see history repeated once more. Makes me wonder if people can ever change... This drama, these words.... Seen it all before.
Perhaps it's time to reinvent yourself. It can be done, you know 
Happy days!
| 21 Mar 10, 8:57 AM The_Colonel_Whatwhat 3 yrs  |
I believe that we reveal ourselves more deeply than other couples. Not only do we share actions which many would consider extremely intimate but we enter into Power Exchange and Trust issues at a level most would not comprehend. When it goes wrong perhaps we feel the anxiety of having given too much of ourselves. We seek reassurance from others because we feel utterly torn apart. Some may do this by spitting their proverbial dummy out whilst others simply offload their feelings. There is little point in using terms such as "blame" or "wrong" in my view. The choices we make may demonstrate to the OP a side of us of which they had been unaware. Like a dripping tap, new information enters the equation and little by little we get to know the OP better. Sometimes this is reinforcing, sometimes the opposite. Occasionally something triggers the tap to be opened fully and the flow can be overwhelming. I agree with you. From time to time you have to take stock and maybe change yourself a little and move on. Sometimes moving on might even mean returning with new knowledge. I am not new to kink but the more experience I have the more I realise that it is a layer on top of a relationship not an end in itself. I came, I saw, I concurred |
| 21 Mar 10, 9:01 AM kaoskitten 7 yrs |
The only way to let the furore calm is to do nothing. Personally reading about the death of a good man I would hope would kind of put things into perspective on the blogs front. We shall see. bop it Bind me, gag me, beat me and make me yours - kk (I have - bop_it |
