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Posted by LittleMissLeather
on Fri 19 Mar 10, 9:02 AM to the Daddy_Dom_Dynamic group.
What a great description of how some feel about Daddy stuff, I feel that way about it myself somewhat. Forgive me if this doesnt make sense ....but Daddy stuff is'nt roleplay to me its very real but in the same breath, very not real. Daddy makes me feel small and vunerable so I need him to look after me, to fix me like only Daddy can. He knows whats best for me he is my Daddy. The only way I can explain how Daddy differs from my Father, for people who think its way too " Icky " is to say that I would never and never did call my Father Daddy only ever Dad. One thing I am certain of is that the Daddy stuff is very,very deep. When I am in little girl mode even my voice changes, I am a little girl, Daddys little one.
| 19 Mar 10, 9:40 AM FairyGirl UK(YO), 3 yrs    |
It's never a roleplay for me, in most things I do there's an element of being little, it's just not too explicit. I skip every now and again, I giggle like a little girl, I wear my hair in pigtails a lot, I have a blunt fringe haircut... So to call him Daddy just felt natural. I never called my father Daddy, always Dad. Two entirely different places in my head.  "Nothing saves anyone's life, Sir. It just postpones their death." - Posner , The History Boys. |
| 19 Mar 10, 9:50 AM LittleMissLeather 4 yrs |
Replying by memo. " I'm selfish,impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't desreve me at my best." Marilyn Monroe. |
| 19 Mar 10, 4:23 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs   |
I actually did call my father Daddy (and still do sometimes, so he gets forewarning that I'm about to ask for something  ). At first I was really icked out by it, but having agreed to at least try it, I was stunned to find not once, not even for a split second did I associate my Daddy Dom with my father, despite previously only ever calling my father that. I still think part of it for me is due to the fact I also liken the dynamic with a Daddy Dom to the dynamic I have with God, who I also think of as "Daddy".XxX |
| 20 Mar 10, 4:10 PM Sirs_Froglet UK(S), 3 yrs |
It took me quite a while before I openly expressed my desire to call Sir 'Daddy', but he was my Daddy whether or not it was ever said. It can mean a lot of different things to different people. For me, it means he is my protector, my guide through things which scare me or seem too difficult, the person in whom I can trust everything, and to me, he embodies everything that 'family' and 'home' mean: the people with whom you are entirely yourself and with whom you will always be accepted and loved, and come home to. So part of the meaning is beautiful and emotive. The word 'Daddy' just seemed to sum it up for me, and fits with my little girl-like personality when I am around him. It also envokes things that are terribly erotic to me: the sense of there being illicit dynamics or aspects between us; the overstepping boundaries to become as close as can possibly be; and, if I'm honest, it makes me giggle to think we keep this "dirty little secret" within our little "family"! So yup, there is an element of fetish and eroticism in it too! |
