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| Thu 18 Mar 10, 11:06 PM slutling_angel 3 yrs  |
a sub and when is a Dom/Domme not a Dom/Domme? "Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do". ( Confucius) | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:07 PM daeimos UK(OL), 3 yrs  |
when it's a switch curious about most things | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:09 PM slutling_angel 3 yrs |
Touche!
When is a fem-sub not a sub and a Dom not Dom?
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do". ( Confucius) | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:09 PM Vamp_Mystik UK(CH), 2 yrs |
Surely its really all about the psychology of the dynamic versing your personal desires at the time....
The challenge is to be yourself, in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else...... | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:14 PM Romola UK, 7 yrs |
When they are not in a relationship that works that way? Or not in a context where the dynamic is relevant? It's only a weblog | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:14 PM Manteau UK(S), 2 yrs |
When either decide that they don't want to do it any more? Is it a pub quiz question?  Suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great Calamities with cheerfulness, not through insensibility but through greatness of mind.
Aristotle | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:21 PM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
Not one I have ever known and I used to be in a team so I know a lot of the trick questions. M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:25 PM Vamp_Mystik UK(CH), 2 yrs |
The challenge is to be yourself, in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else...... | |
| 18 Mar 10, 11:58 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
You don't need to be in a relationship to be internally a sub, just as you don't need a lover to be gay or a partner to be male or female. You just are. People are free to use the label they choose although it's not good if someone female says they're male or 60 says they're 40 or switch says they're dominant etc. | |
| 19 Mar 10, 6:45 PM slutling_angel 3 yrs |
You are right. The relationship may not be working because of outside sources. I am going to be honest here and hold the cane to my bum. A sub is not a sub without a her Dom beside her, and creating all that was there in the very beginning of D/s and a Dom is not a Dom without the sub participating. I have set up a blog here http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/267080/ because I am hoping that those that are in a 24/7 D/s will learn a thing or two. I have little experience in 24/7 or even living full time with a partner. I will be opening up my feeling & views about D/s, within these blogs. As I need to get it out and make sense of it all. The love is there and the rest will be reborn.
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do". ( Confucius) Edited 20 Mar 10, 12:03 PM by slutling_angel | |
| 19 Mar 10, 7:20 PM Clusterfuck 2 yrs |
lovely |
