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| Wed 17 Mar 10, 1:44 PM crimbo_clitpump UK(WV), 4 yrs   |
a girl in my office has just said ive just found a great web site called in formed consent out loud in an open plan office. i know weve had threads like this before but anyone ever so well, blatant. lib | |
| 17 Mar 10, 1:52 PM Fitznicely UK(B), 2 yrs |
I've been quite open about my preferences with people I've made friends with at work. Usually, it'll be just part of conversation, joking about handcuffs or whips or whatever, I'd just drop a quick "actually, that's quite fun" into the mix, and they'd be like "Oh, we know you're a big ol' perve anyway"  My girl's number flashes up on my phone as "kajira". I left my phone at work once by accident, and she called. A colleague picked up...Thankfully nothing was said. You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me. | |
| 17 Mar 10, 2:08 PM shibari_mike UK(IG), 3 yrs |
I have never ever said or done anything even remotely pervy at work.
A wise-man once told me never to trust anything a wise-man tells you. | |
| 17 Mar 10, 3:14 PM go_dutch UK(AL), 4 yrs  |
that requires a LMAO! Special Ed *WARNING do not click if you cannot take a joke or are too sensitive* "These are the Phenomena that every pretty Domina is hoping at her Universitee we shall see"- W.S Gilbert Cocktail sugges | |
| 17 Mar 10, 4:15 PM Outlier UK(W), 2 yrs |
Me neither.
"I am from nowhere and everywhere" Karl Lagerfeld | |
| 17 Mar 10, 4:23 PM Al_Hyde UK(KT), 3 yrs |
I've taken a couple of peolpe to kinky places from work but only after a long time of knowing them. And I've even taken one ferther in and found it can be fun at work now.  Al. Know matter where the light may be the darkness always awaits it. | |
| 17 Mar 10, 4:31 PM Mistress_sultrybelle UK(G), 2 yrs £ |
I consider myself quite an open person but being open about my dominatrix work to a couple of people I trusted at work resulted in a witch hunt and I no longer work for that company. | |
| 17 Mar 10, 5:59 PM skyfox UK(EH), 5 yrs  |
My first question to that loud voiced person would be "why are you looking at websites like that at work?"
I know I don't. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. | |
| 17 Mar 10, 6:03 PM Corwin UK(L), 11 yrs |
I did mention I was going to a club in Manchester when asked what I was doing at the weekend. I was a bit flummoxed when they asked: "oh, what club, I go out in Manchester loads" My look of panic probably said more than my fuzzy answer about not knowing the name of it. I gave you blood, blood, gallons of the stuff | |
| 17 Mar 10, 6:11 PM Twistee UK(BA), 3 yrs  |
I hint, tease and joke, but do I rather enjoy messing with people's heads that way. Keeps 'em guessing. Beyond that, I don't see any reason why I should share specific details about my personal life. Afterall, I'm not particularly interested in hearing the details of my vanilla colleagues' sex lives. But when it comes to general conversations about sexuality, I always try to make the point that it really doesn't matter what anyone is into, as long as there's consent. I'm sure that makes them wonder what I'm into, but they can guess whatever they like. ~Twistee~ Everything is better with a twist | |
| 17 Mar 10, 6:40 PM Masterful_M UK(N), 3 yrs |
Personally now , I would never mention anything to anybody 'new' at work as I had the same problem as Mistree Sultrybelle . I gave some information to a person in a position of equal 'supervision' in one area of our service -ie well trusted and expected to maintain /secure information who had talked about the scene and showed great interest in doing 'more'. Next thing I know , details had circulated around and although many colleagues/fruends were supportive and non-judgemental AND even jealous in a good way - several others enjoyed the 'game' of snide remarks and asides - which could be taken as bullying anywhere else , but because 'I' told this one trusted person (may she rot in hell- she'll find out about floggers then !!)about me and the scene it was seen as my own fault .... IF you are going to tell anybody , particularly at work , have the greatest trust in them even if they give out the right signals , sounds and jargon . Regards M_M
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