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| 17 Mar 10, 8:27 PM BooteDom UK(NR), 6 yrs   |
There is a big dose of semantics in all this and not least of all because many regard,and maybe even intend,the term switch to be,if not actually an insult,then at least rather implacatory of being somehow not entirely pure in the bdsm sense. Some good points have been made on this subject.It was suggested to me that being able to accept the bottom role was actually an indication of a certain security and an ability to maintain a balance,seeing bdsm in the round without having to maintain a particular title to be worn rather like a badge of rank. | ||
| 17 Mar 10, 8:39 PM Vamp_Mystik UK(WA), 3 yrs |
Interesting.... I am the exact opposite and no doubt the reason for my 90% / 10% Twist....
The challenge is to be yourself, in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else...... | ||
| 17 Mar 10, 10:09 PM t_judd UK(BN), 8 yrs |
Sums up how I feel about this perfectly. | ||
| 17 Mar 10, 10:33 PM faeryboi 6 yrs |
They all just need a fucking good slap. You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.
Indira Gandhi | ||
| 18 Mar 10, 9:23 PM NancyBlackett UK(W), 2 yrs |
Hell yes. I'm clearly not a twue Domme because every so often, I'll ask my girl to tie me up and do nasty hitty things to me. I don't really think this could be called switching on the basis that she defines as exclusively sub and has to be given some pretty explicit instructions about exactly what I want. Most of the times we do this, it usually ends up with me telling her to hit me harder and threatening her with some kind of evil reprisal if she doesn't.
It's all good, I reckon | ||
| 18 Mar 10, 9:43 PM Romola UK, 7 yrs |
It's only a weblog | ||
| 22 Mar 10, 12:18 PM mister_steven UK(E), 5 yrs |
I dont see why getting turned on by receiving pain contradicts dominance. I love feeling pain, especially when I'm dominating. Being able to cope with pain is surely a sign of strength and power, and getting aroused by pain even more so. I display my love of pain whenever I can. Often a sub has watched me whip myself before I lay a hand (or rather a lash) on them. I like them to see what I can take, what I enjoy. It sets a standard for them. What's really good is getting and giving pain at the same time. The pain I'm suffering spurs me to inflict greater and greater pain on the sub
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| 22 Mar 10, 12:32 PM MadameCaramel  UK(E), 5 yrs £  |
Huh???
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