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| Tue 16 Mar 10, 8:53 PM Big_Girls_Toy UK(SW), 3 yrs |
The original post reminded me of a newspaper report about a German man who sucessfully divorced his wife because she always ruined his orgasm. Her technique was just as he was about to cum, without fail she would say "give it to Mummy". Apparently over timers this gradually drove him to a nervous breakdown. | |
| 16 Mar 10, 8:59 PM Fitznicely UK(B), 2 yrs |
So wrong, so wrong... But then everything's subjective, I'd put money on someone reading that and wanting the woman's phone number. As for how best to ruin an orgasm? Keep a pic of Mo Mowlam handy for the crucial moment. You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me. | |
| 16 Mar 10, 9:02 PM subrugbylad UK(M), 6 yrs |
Well i personally think it depends on the situation to the OP! I can only say from experience but the generally "worst" (also known as best lol) feeling is a long period of stimulation and getting to edge, stop and starting, and then released when just over the edge, leaving the cum to dribble out in hilarious (for the Domme that is!) fashion. After a longish period of denial though it is sometimes horrible to be soft and then aroused and made to cum as quickly as possible with hard, strong and swift motions, yes you have a full orgasm but its all over so quickly you have a real sense of anticlimax afterwards! The pain through orgasm can also work well if you have a non masochistic sub! a swift punch to the balls just as he comes is pretty horrid i would think! Yet to try it that yet! Good luck experimenting, and if you find any other ways then keep us posted! PS deep heat?? wouldnt that warm up worse once orgasm has cum and gone? "insert witty comment here, i cant think of one" | |
| 16 Mar 10, 9:07 PM CherryPip 2 yrs £ |
This happend for the first time the other day...It was terrible,very very frustrating.lol x | |
| 17 Mar 10, 12:31 AM Beau_Tox UK(CB), 7 yrs |
The world's full of freaks... * * * | |
| 17 Mar 10, 12:57 AM Lord_Gobbimort 6 yrs |
best way, every night tease but never ever let them cum. For girls the best way to spoil them is after they cum make them say in a posh voice, "how kind of you to let me cum" | |
| 17 Mar 10, 5:16 AM Beverley UK(CT), 11 yrs |
That depends. If you have a job which needs you to adopt a posh voice at times (like mine) you wouldn't give a flying fuck about saying that. Getting someone telling you how "awesome" they are, on the other hand, is a leg-clamper par excellance and not in a good way. When I am on the giving side I am into orgasm control - in the positive. I'm far happier if someone is absolutely shagged out than stressed out, but I am a mucky minded bitch what can I say? | |
| 17 Mar 10, 7:21 AM chaste777 2 yrs |
Here are a few of my own suggestions: Press a vibrating bullet to the underside of his erect cock. After about 10 minutes, he could leak semen with little or no pleasure. Ball bust him when he reaches the point of no return. Make him cum by using a TENS unit on a particularly powerful and intense setting, so the cumming is extremely unpleasant! Strangle and throttle the life out of his orgasm, by squeezing his cock when he cums to spoil the orgasm and prevent semen leakage. After his orgasm has ceased, let go and watch his semen ooze out! Let go of his cock at the point of no return. Those last few strokes are pleasurable and he will miss not having them. Additionally, if successful, you may also cause him to leak semen rather than spurt, due to stimulation being stopped. I am full of ruined orgasm ideas! LOL!!! | |
| 17 Mar 10, 12:36 PM Goldilocks UK(SE), 5 yrs |
Is it wrong that the above information made me laugh? Lots.
And also reminded me of this
xX Goldie Xx | |
| 17 Mar 10, 5:15 PM mcncirce UK(BH), 9 yrs |
A few suggestions http://www.taylorsteases.com/roguide/index.html Michelle | |
| 17 Mar 10, 7:36 PM kitty_claw UK(TN), 4 yrs |
Making him wear a minimum of 5 condoms seems to do the trick quite nicely too Kitty "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin |