| 15 Mar 10, 11:09 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs  |
goddamnit! really sorry to hear that you had to go through that...so disrespectful in terms of how her behaviour shows that there are people out there who think it's ok disregard the feelings of those who are actually open to lgbt encounters or more. I agree with all the sentiments you express here! It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | |||
| 15 Mar 10, 11:31 PM skadii UK(W), 5 yrs |
I mainly disagree... I do understand the frustration of getting a snog only to find that your snoggee was messing with you (been there, done that), but I really dislike the implicit judgement on girls who have non-serious snogs, or the idea that once straight-identified that's it, the winceyette nightie of heterosexuality is upon you and experimentation is BAD. Okay, some of them might be snogging girls for male attention, or teh lulz, or because they're drunk, or for curiosity - but hell, it's only a snog. If they get into bed with you and then say "Oh, by the way, I've invited my boyfriend to join us, a lesbian threesome's his fantasy" - yeah, be pissed off, but for a snog? Momentary irritation at most. It was never going to lead to marriage. *quite likes snogging straight girls, gay girls, any girls...* | |||
| 15 Mar 10, 11:34 PM Eternallee 3 yrs |
That is a total pants thing to happen, sorry that it did straight girls do it in front of guys, because, it seems like the majority of guys want a girl, who will do a threesome with them. That is why it never works out, because by kissing another girl in front of him, they are promising something that they will never deliver. So its all mens fault for being led by thier willies Edited 15 Mar 10, 11:36 PM by Eternallee | |||
| 16 Mar 10, 12:30 AM Lascif 3 yrs |
We never kissed for the guys, don't ever remember kissing girls in front of a guy. We kissed because we wanted to, because it felt good, though we never progressed further back then.
I can't hear you when you shout. | |||
| 16 Mar 10, 12:32 AM Doghouse_Reilly UK(MK), 6 yrs  |
This blog just goes to prove that no matter what people do, no matter how harmless and enjoyable it is, somebody will object to it. Science isn't about why, it's about why not. You ask: Why is so much of our science dangerous? I say: Why not marry safe science if you love it so much. | |||
| 16 Mar 10, 7:19 AM violet_haze UK(TN), 2 yrs |
saw it the other day, and by god it makes me heave!!!, what they do in private is fine, but doing it to show off to guys they like is so cheesy. a (proper) kiss is a deeply sexual thing, and if you aint prepared to do the dirty, dont get flirty!
Edited 16 Mar 10, 7:20 AM by violet_haze | |||
| 16 Mar 10, 8:50 AM Stillyet UK(DG), 2 yrs |
How do you know whether it's 'in order to get male attention', though? Kissing is nice, big time. I'd be seriously amazed if anyone didn't like doing it. And despite all our (my)[1] heterosexual hangups, the gender of the person you're kissing almost certainly doesn't make much difference to the actual sensations. As you say, if they're just kissing because kissing is seriously nice, why the hell shouldn't they? The more kissing the better, I say! [1] No, I never have snogged a guy. I am very socialised into heterosexuality. But intellectually I believe we're all naturally bi, and that if I could overcome my hangups and snog a guy I'd probably find I enjoyed it just as much. ;; Semper in faecibus sumus, sole profundum variat. | |||
| 16 Mar 10, 5:13 PM MushroomGirl UK, 6 yrs |
And sooner or later you will be the objector...
"Quit? Once I was thinking about quitting when I was diagnosed with brain, lung and testicular cancer, all at the same time. But with the love and support of my friends and family, I got back on the bike and I won the Tour de France five times in a row. But I'm sure you have a good reason to quit" L.Armstrong | |||
| 18 Mar 10, 1:29 AM little_belle UK(E), 4 yrs  |
Just to clarify - I only get riled by the kind of semi-deceitful thing that happened to me - I've had yummy kisses from straight girls when it was just some harmless fun, or so they could know what it was like etc. I just think it's a little pathetic to play on that ideal sexual lesbo-fantasy common to men and use it to bag a guy. But then I am not one for making shows/playing games so *shrug* I can see why people think it's a silly thing to be annoyed about, but I'm not ashamed to say it has the potential to piss me off. Hewwo! I make nylon whips. Take a peek at my profile if you'd like to buy one. | |||
| 18 Mar 10, 10:12 AM MushroomGirl UK, 6 yrs |
My sentiments entirely BP! "Quit? Once I was thinking about quitting when I was diagnosed with brain, lung and testicular cancer, all at the same time. But with the love and support of my friends and family, I got back on the bike and I won the Tour de France five times in a row. But I'm sure you have a good reason to quit" L.Armstrong |
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and silly girls doing somethign to look sexually adventurous. Or as skadii said cos they want a snog off their mate and men take it the wrong way and get all sexed up over it, see told you it is mens willies fault.