22 Mar 10, 8:18 PM
Twistee
UK(BA), 3 yrs
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persia_porsche wrote:
There are the very lucky ones who actively seek the pain that they desire for the direct sexual pleasure the pain gives, a pleasure that is magical and better than sex but it certainly does not have to be regardless of the after effects which can serve to enhance that pleasure.
There's also those masochists whose pleasure is derived in receiving pain they specifically do not enjoy, this is neither regardless of the after effects, in both cases it' can be essential to the experience.
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I'm a bit of both. There are certain types of pain that I do get pleasure from, but above a certain level, pain becomes unpleasant and difficult to endure.
When I get to that point, the lines between dominance, submission, sadism and masochism blur. My entire purpose is to take what the sadist wants, for her pleasure alone. I do get a sense of achievement out of taking a lot of pain, and I love the marks I earn, but the thing that gives me the greatest pleasure is the knowledge that I have given pleasure through my submission.
~Twistee~ Everything is better with a twist
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22 Mar 10, 8:34 PM
Intelligencia
UK(GU), 5 yrs
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Gobbomatrix wrote:
Strobes wrote:
Gobby_Whore wrote:
Im not sure if anyone really likes the pain as such.
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Oh people do, trust me. I've been wrongly labelled a masochist in the past, when in reality I'm just stubborn and I crave the natural high that follows. There's a big difference...
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That is a masochist tho! I like the feeling of being hit and dig the pain, but what gets me places is the chemical effect from that pain.
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I agree with Gobby_Whore on that one! I love even more that 'he' will do it for me to bring me the pleasure I crave and that 'he' will enjoy it just as much, if not more, than I do. We're all winners in that one. 
His Schatz
Schatz Maedel
Edited 22 Mar 10, 8:35 PM by Intelligencia
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22 Mar 10, 8:42 PM
Lord_Gobbimort
6 yrs
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Schatz_Maedel wrote:
Gobbomatrix wrote:
Strobes wrote:
Gobby_Whore wrote:
Im not sure if anyone really likes the pain as such.
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Oh people do, trust me. I've been wrongly labelled a masochist in the past, when in reality I'm just stubborn and I crave the natural high that follows. There's a big difference...
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That is a masochist tho! I like the feeling of being hit and dig the pain, but what gets me places is the chemical effect from that pain.
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I agree with Gobby_Whore on that one! I love even more that 'he' will do it for me to bring me the pleasure I crave and that 'he' will enjoy it just as much, if not more, than I do. We're all winners in that one.
His Schatz
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To quote Mr cooper, I want to hurt you just to here you screaming my name! When topping it is lovely that someone is suffering for you. commitment is like ham and eggs. the chicken makes a contribution, the pig makes a commitment.
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22 Mar 10, 8:47 PM
Intelligencia
UK(GU), 5 yrs
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Gobbomatrix wrote:
Schatz_Maedel wrote:
Gobbomatrix wrote:
Strobes wrote:
Gobby_Whore wrote:
Im not sure if anyone really likes the pain as such.
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Oh people do, trust me. I've been wrongly labelled a masochist in the past, when in reality I'm just stubborn and I crave the natural high that follows. There's a big difference...
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That is a masochist tho! I like the feeling of being hit and dig the pain, but what gets me places is the chemical effect from that pain.
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I agree with Gobby_Whore on that one! I love even more that 'he' will do it for me to bring me the pleasure I crave and that 'he' will enjoy it just as much, if not more, than I do. We're all winners in that one.
His Schatz
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To quote Mr cooper, I want to hurt you just to here you screaming my name! When topping it is lovely that someone is suffering for you.
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Suffering purely that 'he' might have 'his' pleasure, such exquisite pain.
His Schatz Schatz Maedel
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22 Mar 10, 8:53 PM
Spongey
UK(SN), 3 yrs
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Goju_UK wrote:
electronic_doll wrote:
What she said.
The endurance is a battle of wills, usually me versus my own ability to take the pain rather than me versus the Dom (that would be rude...) It really depends on the type and quality of pain as well as the context. Sometimes I can take a lot, sometimes I can't. Sometimes I find enjoyment (whether that's as a nice sensation or just from the rollercoaster adrenaline high of it) in things that on other days I just plain hate.
There's a lot of different things that can help - but again, they vary. Screaming is one, as is growling: if I'm feeling quite animalistic I might kick and buck a bit whereas if I'm more submissive I'd probably try and stay put and be "good". Knowing that there are a finite number of strokes, so counting down, does help. Someone talking to me helps, or sometimes I just talk to myself, in my own head, little words of encouragement...
A lot like running at the gym, come to think of it. Another 1km, then another, then another, breaking it down into pieces.
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What she said and also, I hate pain, but it can be fun. Sometimes clearing your mind and pretending the pain is just an arbitrary feeling can be helpful, i.e. change the way you view the pain by kind of compartmentalising it to 'just another sensation'.
It's actually pretty difficult but I have done it sometimes and other times the pain just breaks through the barrier. It's very mood dependant.
Someone also mentioned to me that breathing regularly and focusing on that breathing is helpful and I tend to agree.
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its been scientifically proven that swearing helps the body to cope with more pain or strong smells such as flowers! my random fact for you!
Butter wouldn't melt x
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22 Mar 10, 8:56 PM
Intelligencia
UK(GU), 5 yrs
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Sponge_boobs wrote:
Goju_UK wrote:
electronic_doll wrote:
What she said.
The endurance is a battle of wills, usually me versus my own ability to take the pain rather than me versus the Dom (that would be rude...) It really depends on the type and quality of pain as well as the context. Sometimes I can take a lot, sometimes I can't. Sometimes I find enjoyment (whether that's as a nice sensation or just from the rollercoaster adrenaline high of it) in things that on other days I just plain hate.
There's a lot of different things that can help - but again, they vary. Screaming is one, as is growling: if I'm feeling quite animalistic I might kick and buck a bit whereas if I'm more submissive I'd probably try and stay put and be "good". Knowing that there are a finite number of strokes, so counting down, does help. Someone talking to me helps, or sometimes I just talk to myself, in my own head, little words of encouragement...
A lot like running at the gym, come to think of it. Another 1km, then another, then another, breaking it down into pieces.
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What she said and also, I hate pain, but it can be fun. Sometimes clearing your mind and pretending the pain is just an arbitrary feeling can be helpful, i.e. change the way you view the pain by kind of compartmentalising it to 'just another sensation'.
It's actually pretty difficult but I have done it sometimes and other times the pain just breaks through the barrier. It's very mood dependant.
Someone also mentioned to me that breathing regularly and focusing on that breathing is helpful and I tend to agree.
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its been scientifically proven that swearing helps the body to cope with more pain or strong smells such as flowers! my random fact for you!
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LMAO - Like I'd ever swear when 'he' is hurting me. I may like pain but I like life more  Schatz Maedel
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22 Mar 10, 8:56 PM
beestinglips
4 yrs |
Interesting thread. When I first started exploring S&M I soon discovered that I like some kinds of pain, but not others.
Flogging does it for me, so does electricity.
The cane less so. In fact, I'm bloody scared of the cane. But the cane it often is and because he enjoys it so, I'll always 'bend over' for him.
There pleasure lies.
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