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| Thu 11 Mar 10, 7:39 PM Scribbles UK(RH), 4 yrs  |
What feeling does this word most bring to mind for you - whether as dominant, sub or even switch? What action, ritual or time do you most associate with it? When I first became poly I stopped using this word as a special term of endearment - the idea of possessing a person began to feel wrong to me. Then I heard of D/s, and even M/s, and began to wonder again... Edited Thu 11 Mar 10, 7:59 PM by Scribbles | |
| 11 Mar 10, 7:47 PM Snowpard UK, 3 yrs   |
Damn  Without wishing to draw attention to this, I thought it sounded really interesting and was something I was looking forward to lurking on.
Obviously your reasons for deleting it are for you to know but I just thought I ought to say in case you reconsider re-opening this Threads are like skirts. They should be long enough to cover the interesting details, but short enough to keep things interesting. | |
| 11 Mar 10, 7:48 PM go_dutch UK(AL), 3 yrs   |
ditto, i read it, and though i'm not in a d/s relationship the concept interested me.
i hope you post on the topic again some time Special Ed *WARNING do not click if you cannot take a joke or are too sensitive* "These are the Phenomena that every pretty Domina is hoping at her Universitee we shall see"- W.S Gilbert Cocktail sugges | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:06 PM TheVisit UK(GL), 2 yrs |
I tend to use the back of my hand, a good old slipper or the back of hairbrush. I find mines somewhat too teminal in their effect... | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:16 PM Fitznicely UK(B), 2 yrs |
To me, it's an expression of huge pride and happiness. My family is mine and it's the best thing in the world to hold them close and call them that You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me. | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:22 PM dirtylittlecunt UK(W), 5 yrs |
i think it might just be the sum of everything i want. some days it's hardly worth chewing through the leather straps | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:23 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
It's nice to feel a dominant man owns you. "Mine" implies mutual exclusivity and being owned. | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:25 PM Thistle US, 4 yrs |
We are monogamous and d/s but not m/s. (Sorry, I could just never wrap my head around the caps/no caps thing, as if more power = more important than.) So, to say that I am his is to say that I acknowlege his singular and absolute right to my sexuality, my respect, my affection, my commitment and - here's where it gets kinky - my obedience even in the face of my own will. Because we both sort of treasure the privacy and exclusivity of our dynamic, I'm not going to illustrate the depth or configuration of each of those things. But I will say that there's a sense of his rights to my body, attitudes and emotions having more precedence and immediacy than my own rights to myself. We do tend to ritualize it as a component of passion, but it neither begins nor ends there. love the brave but avoid cowards, knowing the gratitude of cowards is small ~Praxilla of Sicyon | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:42 PM Taintedinnocence UK(S), 6 yrs |
It makes me feel very very happy and content  | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:46 PM rose_in_chains UK(W), 4 yrs |
^^^^ what she said...
(and soooooo happy 'she' is back to 'her' and not that other her I could never get accustomed to... | |
| 11 Mar 10, 8:48 PM FairyGirl UK(YO), 2 yrs   |
He said "This is all Daddy's, now. All mine." the other day. I think I melted a bit inside.  "Nothing saves anyone's life, Sir. It just postpones their death." - Posner , The History Boys. |
mwah!