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Now a certain cat is under consideration to become My sub. While W/we are still apart I have granted him the freedom of a free sub and he may play, apart from two things which he has not done before with a woman.
Now after a bad week he felt he was in for a treat and shortnotice arranged to go to a playparty where he met up with a Domme who turned out rather inexperienced. While playing with him she hurt him (ARGH!!!!) and he now is in pain still, days later. Aparently he let himself be talked into one of the things we had reserved for our future play (yeah right..)and it went bad...
Now he is all sorry and feeling not only the physical pain, but also that he let Me down and that he is upset and feels used by the Domme he played with.
I Myself am rather disappointed that he didn´t stick to our arangement (his arse is Mine)and can somehow not work up much sympathy for the pain he is in now.
Also I sense there is some more "Spiel" going on behind this..
My only answer to him was: I hope this memory sticks with you for long, so you learn from it!
He still feels sorry for himself. So, who´s to blame?
ps: I do wish I could tell that woman a few words, too... Can´t stand it when people call themselves tops without learning the ropes first!
Edited Sat 20 Mar 10, 9:09 PM by uniquemoon