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| 10 Mar 10, 11:41 AM stormywaters PT, 4 yrs |
Well I don't wish to claim any special expertise here, but sounds to me like yor're a sadist. That's nice. Hi. My object all sublime... | ||
| 10 Mar 10, 6:37 PM LovingLord 3 yrs  |
I usually refer to myself as a sadistic mindfucking bastard, but I guess all of that is implied by "sadist"... *waves* | ||
| 11 Mar 10, 9:42 AM Cassius UK, 3 yrs  |
I am very grateful to the people here who have expressed so eloquently and elegantly so many nuances of sadism & masochism, within which my loving sub and I have revelled, by actions without words. I have been called a "gentleman dom" and I find it pleasing as it encapsulates so much - of consideration, care and the rest. I call her at times "my lady subbie" because she is that to me. I could not bring myself to mistreat her in any way - yet I know that she and I both are moving more profoundly within both a loving and kink relationship,both avidly ascending. It may be that we shall explore a more savage dimension - but we are concerned that to experiment with a Master/slave situation could damage what we have, likewise a 3some.The frontier between pushing and forcing is of course flexible but neither of us want to snap the connection of trust. The concept of "grace" in so many ways wraps round our one-ness.She wants her boundaries pushed; it contributes to my fulfilment to do it, revealing to her more about herself,as to me. What we have is so very precious : any damage would be to the gestalt, so our particular is "go gently,but not dragging our feet". To summarise - I give her erotic pain; it pleases me; if by accident I hurt her I am mortified. Practise senseless acts of beauty. Edited 11 Mar 10, 8:47 PM by Cassius | ||
| 11 Mar 10, 9:07 PM stormywaters PT, 4 yrs |
Thank you. Sounds a wonderful relationship. My object all sublime... | ||
| 12 Mar 10, 10:26 AM Mr_Worm UK(BN), 6 yrs     |
yup would have thought that this would be the most visual of sadometers ..... it's really not complicated
You want what ? You want a face like a plasterer's radio | ||
| 12 Mar 10, 9:18 PM Domosan 2 yrs |
her masochism has brought out my sadism, i'd never have thought a year ago that i would enjoy inflicting pain on another, but now i really enjoy it. I'll happily admit that keeping my emotions in check is a struggle at times, seeing tears flow and carrying on hitting is not response i was brought up to give! the fact that she enjoys it, nay thrives on it, gives our play a dimension i never thought i would achieve from a relationship. in short, i love every second, the little flinches, the jumping off the bench and everything in between. long may it continue. | ||
| 13 Mar 10, 10:04 AM stormywaters PT, 4 yrs |
Golly gosh, really? Hmmm... ooo go on then. (Yes yes yes, shhh, don't tell anybody.)
My object all sublime... | ||
| 14 Mar 10, 12:20 AM Cassius UK, 3 yrs |
It is - we are both incredibly happy. Practise senseless acts of beauty. |
