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Expectations from first contacts (32)
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8 Jun 10, 5:39 PM
Submissive1
UK(OX), 4 yrs |
Domin8x wrote:
Im with you and rosarose on this one too, so there are others out there that feel the same as you. It can be very frustrating, my last ad i had about 400 replies in just a few days 99% of them didnt even bother to read the profile (when i say i want a single non-smoker most send pics holding fags and wearing wedding rings!?!). I think because we advertise on a kinky site due to the nature of our interests,they think it is all we are after? Sure, kink would be a part of the relationship but being kinky is only a part of me, i am a multi-faceted person, and first and foremost i am a woman! i like cuddles and snogs and going out to dinner and generally being treated like a proper girlfriend - ive found when hunting 'on-scene' those things tend get to get dropped and all the guys want is play, it is enough to put you off! ive tried advertising on a vanilla date site too but the slightest hint of kink , once again all the married and attached guys home in and bombard you with messages hoping for a bit on the side. Its hard to see the wood through the trees, and logistically its impossible to wade through them all trying to find the genuine ones. what amazes me is their aggressive replies when i send them a polite 'thanks but no thanks'. so finding local genuine single non smoking guys looking for a well-balanced healthy 2-way relationship with a hint of kink(that dont live miles away or some other country hoping for a VISA) is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. oh well , one day my prince will come...
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What she said 
I want to talk about kink to a degree (but not on too personal a level to start with) because I am here hoping to find someone that is compatible with that amongst other things, but it is only a part of those things and if that is all someone wants to talk about I just lose interest in the conversation after a while. Remember you are unique, just like everyone else.
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8 Jun 10, 7:02 PM
Poggle135
UK(RM), 2 yrs
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Maybe I'm an unusual dom. While I am more than happy to discuss kinks with someone (in memo/message/chat) I respect and understand the other persons wishes. We are all individual people with different wants and needs and we should be tollerant (and maybe embrace) other peoples ideals without compromising your own.
I for one, am happy to talk vanilla and enjoy getting to know people on various levels. Live your life as if the world is about to end in a day...no regrets.
Only through darkness can you appreciate light.
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