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Neediness and "Being Little" (29)

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jules9
Posted by jules9 on Wed 3 Mar 10, 1:41 PM to the Daddy_Dom_Dynamic group.

Needy isn't really a word you'd use to describe me - yet my little allows me to explore this freely, and do you know what? It feels bloody wonderful!

I'm off on a date with a Daddy type on Friday and one of the things we've been chatting about recently is neediness. I think my jaw hit the floor when he said it was something he enjoyed during play. A man actually wanting a woman to be needy - and more than that admitting it? Well this is seriously new territory for me!

So how about you? Daddies/Mummies/lil ones? How do your emotions change during this kind of play? Does this type of thing add to your dynamic, or take away from it?

XxX

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4 Mar 10, 9:50 PM
DaddyDan
UK(M), 2 yrs
I love the idea of a needy little girl :-)

Daddys here sweetness, Daddys here x

5 Mar 10, 4:14 PM
FairyGirl
UK(YO), 3 yrs

Doesn't it have a lot to do with vulnerability?

"Nothing saves anyone's life, Sir. It just postpones their death." - Posner , The History Boys.
All it takes for bad English to prevail is for literate people to do nothing.

20 Mar 10, 4:04 PM
Sirs_Froglet
UK(S), 3 yrs

I'm a terribly needy little girl! I know I demand a lot, in terms of time, patience and fuss, but I love wholeheartedly, am getting braver and growing as a person and submissive, and I guess that's why Daddy loves me back.
6 May 10, 8:25 AM
ladydreams
UK(CR), 3 yrs



I am very needy and seek reassurance knowing and being number one. I am vulnerable and need to be looked after, wanting to please (although not always :) ) i give my all. i must add my vanilla life is of complete contrast. When i am with him i feel safe, and protected. For me this is not role play this is just how i am, combined with my submissiveness.

Edited 6 May 10, 8:34 AM by ladydreams

6 May 10, 12:14 PM
King_Tiger
UK(SN), 2 yrs
Aw, babydoll, everythings going to be OK ;)
6 May 10, 7:22 PM
Mabesque
UK(LS), 4 yrs
I have to admit I like being needed, as long as I know the person is also strong in themselves too - which sounds paradoxical, but you do get both sometimes.

You can't change the direction of the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

6 May 10, 10:07 PM
Miss_Poppins
UK(RG), 2 yrs
ladydreams wrote:
I am very needy and seek reassurance knowing and being number one. I am vulnerable and need to be looked after, wanting to please (although not always :) ) i give my all. i must add my vanilla life is of complete contrast. When i am with him i feel safe, and protected. For me this is not role play this is just how i am, combined with my submissiveness.

I second exactly that.

Hab keine Angst, einen großen Schritt zu machen, wenn dies nötig ist. Ein Abgrund lässt sich nicht mit zwei kleinen Sprüngen überqueren (David Lloyd George).

7 May 10, 10:06 AM
unnatural_disaster
4 yrs
ladydreams wrote:
I am very needy and seek reassurance knowing and being number one. I am vulnerable and need to be looked after, wanting to please....
Absolutely. Oh, to feel treasured, wanted and protected! I would give anything for that to be a part of my relationship. It could heal so many wounds!
8 May 10, 1:39 PM
King_Tiger
UK(SN), 2 yrs
Ive taken a fair amount of grief over being a nurturer! Its not in my genetic make up to leave someone in tears or unhappy. Even if Ive spent a couple of hours spanking and torturing someone, I still want to cuddle them and whisper sweet nothings in to their ear. Why do some people see this as weekness?!

Edited 8 May 10, 4:27 PM by King_Tiger

8 May 10, 2:37 PM
sparklydolly
UK(HU), 2 yrs
Hmmm, Ive a feeling Im going to be a needy lil girl with Daddy. Im feeling it now a little, I just want a big hug off him :)

sparkly x

Im a broken doll, You're the puppeteer, Take control for me, And wipe away my fear - Paloma Faith

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