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CFNM Play Parties would they work ? (53)

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7 Mar 10, 1:08 PM
LadyEmmaCavendish
UK(N), 8 yrs
I think it would depend on whether you are expecting people to arrive in pairs e.g. CFNM or if you are also expecting predominantly singles, CFs and NMs. If it is the latter, would there be any agenda or protocol e.g. emphasis on service such as serving drinks, massage, ball busting etc etc.?

The idea of CFNM interests me (and is something that my private play usually entails) but I also have a vision of a CFNM party being a few lovely attired ladies and lots of "skeezy" naked men hanging about.

I think the ratio of women to men and also the balance between singles and couples would be a very influential part of the party's success.

Lady Emma

7 Mar 10, 3:49 PM
Lady_Lucan
UK(L), 4 yrs
LightningJack wrote:

We are not bothered about finanicially viable we always cover our costs. What I mean by "work" is yes gender split. At most of our parties we get something around parity for male/female ratio. Occasionally a few more men than women and on just 1 occasion we had two thirds female, one third male.

Clearly it wouldnt be much fun for the NM if there were hardly any ladies there. Of course at our regular parties we have several naked men and naked women anyway but my suggestion would be all the men to be naked including yours truly.

I am concerned that I dont want to alienate the women by having so many naked men around.

Its a bit too chilly at present but perhaps viable nearer the summer.

Thanks for clarifying. Well, for myself, I would be interested in paying to attend such an event if a) all the NM were subs and b) there was a good mix of ages and body sizes among the people attending.

They that love not Tobacco & Boies were fooles.

7 Mar 10, 8:17 PM
PrinceCaspian
UK(SE), 6 yrs

MissFelicity wrote:
Gibberish_Tommy wrote:
I think a CFNM party would only work with just Femme Dommes,and at a limited attendance party,not as at LJs parties where there is a general mix though you could always have a DCSN party(Dom/.Dommes clothed Subs Naked parties)

Or of course the other way around.

Some feel that being naked is very empowering.

Short answer is, you'll never please everyone.

I think a cfnm party with all orientations there would be a good idea. I see no reason why nudity means sub.

Theodore Bikel: "All too often arrogance accompanies strength, and we must never assume that justice is on the side of the strong. The use of power must always be accompanied by moral choice."

7 Mar 10, 8:26 PM
Ama_Sidero
UK(GU), 7 yrs


PrinceCaspian wrote:
MissFelicity wrote:
Gibberish_Tommy wrote:
I think a CFNM party would only work with just Femme Dommes,and at a limited attendance party,not as at LJs parties where there is a general mix though you could always have a DCSN party(Dom/.Dommes clothed Subs Naked parties)

Or of course the other way around.

Some feel that being naked is very empowering.

Short answer is, you'll never please everyone.

I think a cfnm party with all orientations there would be a good idea. I see no reason why nudity means sub.

Same here. I would attend. It does seem logical, though, that there would be some sort of a "reason" for it. On the other hand, who NEEDS a reason? :-D

I wouldn't go to a cmnf party, but that is just because I don't particularly like being "nekkid". But if other people are, it doesn't bother Me. In the end, it is their choice.

7 Mar 10, 8:27 PM
TheSecretHistory
UK(N), 5 yrs
Clearly the criteria/focus would need to be specified but I think that it is an excellent idea. Why even wait for summer? Surely the cold would increase the humiliation? CFNM to me implies Dommes being served and worshipped by naked men. I would imagine that there needs to be a majority of one group. Either a surplus of naked men, all eager to impress, or a veritable gang of Dommes in order to increase the humiliation and power elements.
8 Mar 10, 7:41 AM
jasej1
2 yrs
Hello, I would certainly be interested in CFNM parties, and would rapidly volunteer myself to be the male victim.

CFNM has always fascinated me, it gives that edge in terms of power over the victim, enhacing the situation.

Big thumbs up from me, and I certainly think it would work.

8 Mar 10, 3:12 PM
Starburst
UK(SK), 3 yrs
I think it's a great idea, and would love to attend if invited. I have been subjected to enforced nudity in front of normally clothed women as well as men, indeed I was recently kept naked for one couple for a whole weekend. Beware those fantasists out there who have never tried it, the range of emotions you go through are extremely wide and varied, and you really do have to have the correct mind set to forsake all control and humility. The sheer excitement coupled with total embarrasment is one thing, but the feeling of total vulnerability and humiliation is something else as you allow normally clothed people to view you in complete nakedness for their fun and enjoyment. Believe me, after several hours you really do wish for the slightest amount of clothing to cover what used to be your privates that are now bared for all to see. The novelty does wear off so beware... I still love putting myself through it though.
9 Mar 10, 11:45 AM
tomfoolery
UK(N), 2 yrs
I have some alternatives for your consideration... the fact the initials are the same is purely coincidence by the way:

Cockney Female Northern Male

Cook Fry-up then Naked Feast

Charitable Females Numerate Males

Cuckold Friend Named Mike

(depending on how many mike's there are available to attend)

13 Mar 10, 2:28 PM
ukrick
UK(ST), 4 yrs
With careful planning and the right balance of male, female, age and sizes it could be an amazing experience for all involved.. Please count me in if you do decide to organise something.
18 Mar 10, 6:23 PM
philip5
UK(N), 6 yrs
It s a such a nice idea, i have seen couple of website of CFNM, i am fascinating about it. I am sure it will be pleasant for ladies and the naked guys, i am not shamed to be naked even in public, i was naked at wasteland in holland, it was a funny experience and i discovered that there is more female naked than man!! obviously there are dutch!!! i am keen to help you.

philip5

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