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How do you ensure your own safety? (47)

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13 Mar 10, 5:53 PM
lisal
8 yrs
dungeonhire wrote:
I make sure that I am outside the dungeon/school room, for every visitor and have a hidden panic alarm.

I hope by this you don't mean that you are listening in on a session

Cos, were I looking. that would completely put me off sessioning with someone who used your dungeon. I fully appreciate that there has to be security on place (in certain situations) for PDs but, to me, a session is a very personal thing and having someone hearing and knowing what was going on would certainly be a total turn off

13 Mar 10, 6:15 PM
BARNET_BASTILLE*
UK(EN), 2 yrs
Not my kink, just there to show security level.Dungeon sound proof and self contained. Panic alarm is a very loud buzzer,that can be heard in my workshop nearby.

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Edited 13 Mar 10, 6:18 PM by BARNET_BASTILLE

13 Mar 10, 6:20 PM
lisal
8 yrs
dungeonhire wrote:
Not my kink, just there to show security level.Dungeon sound proof and self contained

Thanks

And certainly didn't imagine for one moment that it was your kink. I just feel that, as a possible client, the closeness you described to the action was not encouraging

13 Mar 10, 6:36 PM
Ms_Adventure
UK, 2 yrs
lisal wrote:
dungeonhire wrote:
Not my kink, just there to show security level.Dungeon sound proof and self contained

Thanks

And certainly didn't imagine for one moment that it was your kink. I just feel that, as a possible client, the closeness you described to the action was not encouraging

So knowing that there was another person in close proximity would put you off then... would you feel the same if the other person was a female?

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13 Mar 10, 6:52 PM
lisal
8 yrs
Ms_Adventure wrote:
So knowing that there was another person in close proximity would put you off then... would you feel the same if the other person was a female?

Yes

and

Yes

It's the "outside the dungeon door" comment that I find offputting.

I now session with someone who I know really well so there is just the two of us in the entire place and, obviously, that's really great.

Having said that I've sessioned a lot in the past with dommes who have had maids at their place of work and I totally understand why. But they were in another room - within shouting/responding to a panic alarm distance but not within hearing what is going on range

13 Mar 10, 7:18 PM
BARNET_BASTILLE*
UK(EN), 2 yrs
The dungeon is soundproof. The idea is to show security for the Mistress is there and strong.

Party at the Barnet Bastille 4th Sunday every month
www. dungeon-bastille-hire.co.uk

13 Mar 10, 8:26 PM
Mistress_Avralivia
UK(RG), 4 yrs
£
I send my scary other half a text i have pre typed into my phone within 15 minutes of the session starting. If he doesn't get a text he comes home and murders the client.

Need a bigger patio...

Nah it's just for my piece of mind really, and am not sure I need it anymore, but it was helpful when I first started, just to make me feel safer

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