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D/s relationship problems (64)

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1 Mar 10, 4:29 PM
viragoangel
UK(FY), 5 yrs
S3phiroth wrote:
D/s relationship problems

Curious to know opinions on what a Dominant would do if a submissive tried to overpower them?

Would depend on the circumstances but in "our" relationship...i guess i'd get well and truly thumped now. Last time we met i told Him He was too soft on me and gave in..even after i bit Him...so i'm deffo hoping for a thrashing next time.;)

jules.x

1 Mar 10, 4:46 PM
rubesque
UK, 4 yrs
Mutiny? I'd kick his head in. For real, for serious.

He looked into My eyes, and I almost died. Then I remembered what I was and half killed him.

1 Mar 10, 5:30 PM
Master_Menarch
UK(IP), 5 yrs
Surely if it got to a serious stage the whole D/s relationship would have broken down? If it's fun that's quite different ;)
1 Mar 10, 7:02 PM
BooteDom
UK(NR), 6 yrs

As passion's "victim" I have to say that it was all fun. I know that I stand somewhat discredited by her SAS style takeover,just as I was contemplating a hard evening's entertainment for her.Nevertheless I have to say it was done with considerable panache and some good humour and I did come out with some dignity,even though my holding out against the cane offered potential embarrassment in the changing room at the gym today.

1 Mar 10, 8:52 PM
NimueBanditQueen
UK(MK), 2 yrs

Elysium wrote:

As one of those perversatile strange switchy things. ...

Perversatile is my new favourite word :-D

Myself when young did eagerly frequent
Doctor and Saint, and heard great Argument
About it and about; but evermore
Came out by the same Door as in I went.
- The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam

1 Mar 10, 9:34 PM
x_bec_x
4 yrs
Passion8, I just read this out to my Dom and we were both in hysterics! That is the BEST story ever! I say you were brave, He says you were lucky ;) xxxx

passion8 wrote:
S3phiroth wrote:
D/s relationship problems

Curious to know opinions on what a Dominant would do if a submissive tried to overpower them?

Well I can recount what happened at the weekend....

I decided to turn the tables on my Dom and subject him to some "scientific research". He is a mental arithmetic genius (smartarse) and can provide answers to maths puzzles at breathtaking speed. So I wanted to see if he could perform this skill whilst somewhat distracted -all in the name of the advancement of knowledge; what is the impact of BDSM on cognitive skills? Plus he had "dissed" my interest in Olympic curling and bored me with the football results during the afternoon so it seeemed fitting.

So relying on his predictability to take a bath on Saturday evenings. I gathered the items needed for my dastardly plan; a hood, leg restraints, a dressing gown and an ice cold jug of water. I waited for him to get into his bath and at the same moment I threw the light switch (located outside the room). I stormed into the room and in order to disorientate him SAS style, I threw the jug of cold water over him. By the sound of the yelp in the dark it worked. I then barked instructions to be followed or more cold water would be used. I was relying on two factors at this stage; 1. I had height advantage - getting out of a bath of water takes effort and I thought I could stop him getting out. 2. The threat of cold water is quite effective at generating compliance.

With him sitting up in the bath in the dark wondering what the heck is going on (he tells me he thought the fuse had blown - not mine!) I managed to put the hood on him and told him to put out his hands. I put the ill-fitting ankle restrains on this wrists. They have a quick ratchet device and were sufficient at this stage and I helped him get out of the bath. I put the dressing gown over his dripping body and led him to the playroom.

With my Dom tied naked to the whipping bench and with his hands tied to the overhead suspension point I began to try some of the "wonderful things" he enjoys subjecting me to. First of all force feeding him the food he hates most (celery). I then went on to make him eat baby food ("my first spaghetti bolognaise"). I dripped hot wax on to his thighs and then even wired him up to the estim box. And on each occasion I did so and timed his answers to mathematical puzzles, Mr Smartarse (name changed to protect the guilty - and I'm using the voice of an actor) he refused to be distracted by my best endevours and answered every question with irritating ease. He then refused to surrender to a quite heavy caning. Aaarrghhh.

So what findings arose from this scientific research?

1. I have quite a sadistic side that I didn't know I had :)

2. Smartarse Doms will endure almost anything to remain smartarse Doms.

3. And finally in answer to the OP, turning the tables is done at one's peril. The following evening I found myself hogtied in the same bath with the taps running (generously warm) water and me begging for the plug to be pulled out as the water reached my nose. He tells me I gave him the idea of the bath! I wouldn't have wanted it any other way :)

Passion x

i don't appreciate you creeping up on me like a dog at a disco...

1 Mar 10, 9:43 PM
BooteDom
UK(NR), 6 yrs

You are both right.Brave and lucky.
1 Mar 10, 9:44 PM
passion8
UK(SW), 3 yrs

x_bec_x wrote:
Passion8, I just read this out to my Dom and we were both in hysterics! That is the BEST story ever! I say you were brave, He says you were lucky ;) xxxx

Thanks Bec :) I like to think the planning paid off. And my SAS style raid followed their "Who Dare's Wins" principle although I ruled out coming through the windows after a risk-assessment. My success has inpired me to consider pushing my luck further. I have some ideas up my sleeve and I laugh in the face of retribution !! xx

This is not just any scene, This is an S&M scene xx

2 Mar 10, 2:05 AM
sodsta
UK, 5 yrs
MissyG wrote:
S3phiroth wrote:
D/s relationship problems

Curious to know opinions on what a Dominant would do if a submissive tried to overpower them?

hot, I like a wrestle...

;)

Yay. Fun answer. :)

Froufrou - kinky hand-made tutus.

2 Mar 10, 8:36 AM
Cassius
UK, 3 yrs

S3phiroth wrote:
D/s relationship problems

Curious to know opinions on what a Dominant would do if a submissive tried to overpower them?

Clearly the "submissive" is actually a switch.....

Practise senseless acts of beauty.

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