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Persuading others (63)

This post is on the SM/Bondage/Fetish web board.

littlenic wrote:

subette wrote:
Yeah - I'm slightly wary of this. Probably partly because even on a kinky site being a sub can sometimes attract people who want to dom you for the wrong reason and I reckon there would be an even higher chance of this with someone who isn't experienced in kink ('wicked - that chick will let me do _anything_ to her...' etc).

Maybe it's harder for a sub to be open?????

Don't know if it's harder - I too have a profile on a regular site and it's pretty explicit about my submissiveness, though with extra added explanation / clarification of what that means.

*snip

Ok littlenic - I have taken a leaf out of your book and changed my internet dating by-line to 'Vanilla? I don't think so...'.

Let's see how many people think I am talking ice cream

Subette

Maybe I should just give up trying to correct my typos after I have posted...

3 Mar 10, 11:05 PM
purple_mog
UK(YO), 2 yrs

I've found OkCupid to be a good way of finding people/friends and sussing out their preferences

That which yields, is not always weak. — Jacqueline Carey (Kushiel's Dart)

3 Mar 10, 11:11 PM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs

S3phiroth wrote:
I think most of the time I go for rock/metal/industrial chicks, because they are more acceptable to it in my opinion. But then again, I see myself as being in the same category so naturally I would say that.

Interesting you should say that as my last g/f was a punk and came out to clubs with me so maybe there is something in this after all though a sample of one is not exactly convincing

I try and mention as early as possible so within 2 months as a rule which gives time to see other parts of my personality.

Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
I know I'm being used, that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
She'll tie a noose with your heartstrings

Edited 3 Mar 10, 11:14 PM by misfit