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25 Feb 10, 5:22 PM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK(E), 6 yrs
SheilaBlyge wrote:
Also, for the record, I know a few pro-dommes, and they ALL play regularly with subs just for shits and giggles, nothing to do with their 'business' side. But surprise, surprise, the people they play with are FRIENDS... yes, pro-dommes can have friends too! Another surprise is that those friends didn't become friends by suckering up to said pro-dommes just to get a freebie. They became friends through *shock horror* mutual interests... in OTHER stuff... and LIFE... and stuff!

I've seen that enough, and it works both ways

Its more fun if you know the person you're playing with anyway It's the same for anyone in life, treat them as people and you're off to a good start

The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club...

25 Feb 10, 5:24 PM
Commander_Kwaaab
UK(SW), 7 yrs

Hmmm Descartes could prove Dommes exist...

"I spank therefore I am"

NOONE say "don't get descartes before deshorse"... NOONE!

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. Bloody Satnav
A strictly mathematic god marks out the universe with rule and line, but I, myself, am bloody odd and cannot fit to His design. (std disclaimer)

25 Feb 10, 5:26 PM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

May_Thorn wrote:
I don't believe subs exist.

Oh NO!! Please don't start that debate...

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" Quote:TheSilverFox - Circa 1986

25 Feb 10, 5:32 PM
TheVisit
UK(GL), 2 yrs
We all have to follow our own mindset.

Personally, I have considerable sympathy with the OP's comments. To me, the whole idea of a dominant woman would appear to run more than somewhat contrary to the natural order.

My own view/feeling, as I say.

That the OP should have been subjected instantly to vitriolic condemnation for his temerity in voicing HIS view comes as little surprise, to judge by what I have seen generally hereabouts as passing for reasoned argument.

25 Feb 10, 5:37 PM
MisterBear
UK(WA), 8 yrs


May_Thorn wrote:
I don't believe subs exist.

Here's their home page. Now don't you look foolish for making such a remark.

And here's a Doms site

I always behave. I just don't specify how.
WARNING: Some BDSM activities may run the risk of injury or even death. However life runs the risk of injury and the certainty of death.

25 Feb 10, 5:37 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
Has anyone ever applied quantum theory to this?

Schrodinger's dom/me (or sub...)......

They are only dominant, if they want to dominate you... and you don't get to find out until you open the box and find out if they go for it. Or not... Though perhaps they might be dominant in someone else's universe, regardless of what happens, or doesn't, in yours. Hmmmmm.....

And what does this tell us about switchers? No wonder I like to start with a little basic string therapy, I mean, theory.

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
The antidote to whinge threads...?

25 Feb 10, 5:44 PM
StanBWonderful
UK(L), 6 yrs
Without wishing to sound too much like a prick, the fact that so many of the dommes who replied have got little green £ signs next to their names does seem to support the point the OP was making.

The OP may well be a wrongun, but is it really only the wronguns who feel this sort of frustration?

Stan

<edited to rephrase something>

Edited 25 Feb 10, 5:46 PM by StanBWonderful

25 Feb 10, 5:45 PM
May_Thorn
UK(BS), 6 yrs
£
MisterBear wrote:
May_Thorn wrote:
I don't believe subs exist.

Here's their home page. Now don't you look foolish for making such a remark.

And here's a Doms site

Well I might, if I wasnt busy deferring to superior idiocy.

:-)

If you're not living on the edge....I can help.

25 Feb 10, 5:51 PM
Mistress_Avralivia
UK(RG), 4 yrs
£
*sigh*

Point is just because someone may do pro-domming does not mean that they do not enjoy it, or that they don't do it for fun too.

I fecking despair sometimes.

Luckily I know, my friends know, and anyone who has ever actually met me knows I love what I do... guess I will just have to accept that some random people on the tinternet think I am a money grabbing bitch who hates men or some such thing.

StanBWonderful wrote:
Without wishing to sound too much like a prick, the fact that so many of the dommes who replied have got little green £ signs next to their names does seem to support the point the OP was making.

The OP may well be a wrongun, but is it really only the wronguns who feel this sort of frustration?

Stan

<edited to rephrase something>

Senno Ekto Gamat

25 Feb 10, 5:53 PM
nikkip1958
UK(DE), 2 yrs
JennyM wrote:
nikkip1958 wrote:
I dont beleive dominatrix exist

we all kno pro dommes do exist..they may enjoy their work...so may their customers...but I tell you this there is nothing like doing stuff for fun/love just cuz it feels good.....I have quite a bit of experience in life..had kids..had sex with men..but /I tell you what I have never ever met a real genuine woman who wants to dominate/humiliate......I would love to but my experience tells me they dont exist..or if they do they certainly are not looking for male subs......what do others think..?dommes or subs comments welcome..

I'm sorry you feel let down in this way - I assume that you have tried and failed to meet a dominant woman.

We do exist, but the secret to meeting us is never to forget we have other bits to us that are equally or more important than our dominance. Our passions, our work, our families, our beliefs, our interests, our values, our homes, our tastes. These things in both submissive and dominant create the backbone of our relationships, and feeling that they are important to you is what makes us more likely to want to see you again. Same as any relationship really. Get out and get to know us.

Thans for your response Jenny...you will see that I have had some much less helpful,than yours, in fact rude and silly responses...yea I hear what you say..actually I get out alot and have loads of girl mates...but no one seems to want a male sub for their own playmate..really dont..and yet I seem to be everyones best mate and loadsa people seek my company daily.....at least the furor I have stirred up on here reassures me they do exist....but so many of the responses to my gentle but provocative post have been very silly and childish...thanks for your response anyway...maybe there is hope..Nikki P

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