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JustLou
Posted by JustLou on Wed 24 Feb 10, 2:16 PM to JustLou's blog.

apparently,being a poly switch is "not real" and such people

"only meet up for an hour for sexplay"

"just sexual kicks satisfaction"

I have been informed that a sub is

"a total coward to the world"

"Nothing to do with pain and leather "

roar!!!!!!!!

Replies

24 Feb 10, 2:17 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
Yeah, these things just add up to a handy dickhead filter!

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
The antidote to whinge threads...?

24 Feb 10, 2:24 PM
TheSilverFox*
UK(GU), 2 yrs

Ahhh... Bless... The poor person just wants some attention... Was it by any chance from someone who also thinks they are the only twoo dom?

"The art of being a Gentleman is knowing when not to be" Quote:TheSilverFox - Circa 1986

24 Feb 10, 2:33 PM
JustLou
UK(M), 5 yrs

TheSilverFox wrote:
Ahhh... Bless... The poor person just wants some attention... Was it by any chance from someone who also thinks they are the only twoo dom?

Bizarrely,they say they are a sub!

24 Feb 10, 2:42 PM
Mr_Worm
UK(BN), 6 yrs


dontcha just love the monopoly on twueness ... aret hese people allowed out on their own ?
24 Feb 10, 3:14 PM
x_poison_x
UK(G), 4 yrs

jokelme wrote:

dontcha just love the monopoly on twueness ... aret hese people allowed out on their own ?

LOL... now that did make me laugh x

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, scotch in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming ~ "WOO HOO what a ride!""

24 Feb 10, 4:49 PM
jules9
UK(CH), 3 yrs

lol - I'd love to see them start a thread on the topic and try and defend their argument to the switches and subs out there...

(What can I say, Butterkist have upped their sponsorship ;))

XxX

25 Feb 10, 12:39 PM
alwaysthesub
UK(B), 3 yrs
Myself and this is only my opinion have found switches in life to be confused in what they want or seek..Neither domme nor sub...This then leads to confusion over roles..How can a sub be a domme or domme be a sub..If its a way of life then you no what you are..Fair enough i understand some people like this lifestyle for the sexual side and fetish side but its not a lifestyle being a switch..

Also may i ask have you quoted what was said in a fair way or have you just high lighted points for effect..

Edited 25 Feb 10, 1:09 PM by alwaysthesub

27 Feb 10, 1:24 PM
tiggerGlasgow
UK(EH), 6 yrs

alwaysthesub wrote:
Myself and this is only my opinion have found switches in life to be confused in what they want or seek..Neither domme nor sub...This then leads to confusion over roles..How can a sub be a domme or domme be a sub..If its a way of life then you no what you are..Fair enough i understand some people like this lifestyle for the sexual side and fetish side but its not a lifestyle being a switch..

Also may i ask have you quoted what was said in a fair way or have you just high lighted points for effect..

I have one thing to say to that. BULLSHIT!!!! Sorry I'm not usually as blunt as that but get a grip. Being a switch is a lifestyle. You can be sub to one person but not to all, you can be Dom to only one person and sub to others. Just because you don't understand switching fully doesn't mean it isn't real. I mean I don't understand non-euclidean geometry but that doesn't invalidate how real it is.

Most switches I know are far from confused. They are generally happy, well-balanced people who understand the duality of nature and the subtitles of individual dynamics and the variances inn these far better than those who profess to be one or the other.

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to submit to a switch, that's a personal choice, but declaiming all switches as effectively a bit messed up is a little bit off.

To answer the OP the person or persons who have said this to you are in serious need of a reality check. Bi, switch in denial (I'm a sub who likes to top sometimes) and definitely capable of being smitten with more than one person at a time myself, I've heard all the allegations before. Only silly people knock what they don't understand.

"A life without pain has no meaning" Athrur Schopenhauer
"Rope, rope, rope, rope, rope..." It's sort of like the Dwarvish song "Gold", only it's about rope.

1 Mar 10, 11:02 AM
alwaysthesub
UK(B), 3 yrs
Hey.. I did not knock it at all..Was only stating what i though.I have not or would not knock anyone..Please dont make up things or find with things that i didint say..All im saying is a switch to me is neither Domme nor Sub and would not interest me at all..But god i have not or would not knock anyone that was unfair to say that....
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