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| Belasarius |
on Mon 22 Feb 10, 4:13 PM to the O_and_P group.
O&P meet - Agenda
OK, Agenda is a bit formal, but, another post asked for suggested topics. Here are a few I'd like to air:
D/s in a vanilla context - how do we keep the dynamic going outside the privacy of our homes?
Ritual - making it work, making it real.
A two way street? Who gets what from the relationship?
Domestic routine - how do we live, who does what?
Just a few thoughts - hope they are helpful.
Best to all.
| 22 Feb 10, 5:45 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
I'm so excited about this! Great thoughts for discussions. I particularly like how Ds/O&P work in vanilla land and the topic of rituals. I wonder if 'limits and limitations' might be a good topic too. Where control cannot be had over parts of someone's life, for example. mia, x "Passion should believe itself irresistible. It should forget civility and consideration and all the other curses of a refined nature. Above all, it should never ask for leave where there is a right of way." @Manchester | ||
| 22 Feb 10, 6:00 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs    |
Your latter is apposite but difficult for us. I share c_b - and she endeavours to be the best she can for me when I have custody - but lives differently elsewhere. Making this work isn't easy. Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. | ||
| 22 Feb 10, 8:32 PM mia UK(M), 4 yrs |
I think that's why O&P works so well as a concept. It acknowledges limitations and parameters (how odd that it's not 'parametres'). No it's not easy, but things rarely are. To quote the over-quoted Mark Twain:
mia, x Edited for spelling "Passion should believe itself irresistible. It should forget civility and consideration and all the other curses of a refined nature. Above all, it should never ask for leave where there is a right of way." @Manchester Edited 22 Feb 10, 8:33 PM by mia | ||
| 23 Feb 10, 8:20 AM ElectricLadyLand UK, 4 yrs |
Looking forward to this very much. It will be interesting to see what tips I can pick up (and hopefully) offer! Ruby He looked into My eyes, and I almost died. Then I remembered what I was and half killed him. | ||
| 23 Feb 10, 8:55 AM De_Luxe UK, 5 yrs |
I'd like to discuss extending D/s into the outside world too. and if it would interest others * ownership or possession with or without IE | ||
| 23 Feb 10, 8:05 PM Taintedinnocence UK(S), 6 yrs |
I would quite like to talk about others experiences of "when real life gets in the way" - e.g. work stresses, family difficulties, illness etc - how we can still carry on, for our D/s to make us stronger (which hopefully it does most of the time) | ||
| 24 Feb 10, 8:14 AM ElectricLadyLand UK, 4 yrs |
This...This is something I would like to explore too. He looked into My eyes, and I almost died. Then I remembered what I was and half killed him. | ||
| 24 Feb 10, 2:42 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs |
Very relevant to us: good call. Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. |
