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Deal breakers! (85)

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20 Feb 10, 9:02 AM
Ghedes_Princess
UK(SW), 6 yrs


QuietlyComfortable wrote:
Deal breakers!

...I would like to make it very clear that I would not let any of these facts affect whether or not I would date someone...

*sighs*

Well you really aren't shallow enough then! >:o

I use these facts to determine whether I will even say "hello" to someone... :-D

Love (if you are intelligent, pretty, funny and deviant enough),

Princess_of_Shallowness

xxx

If they don't want me to go for their jugular, they simply oughtn't have one... :-D
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20 Feb 10, 9:03 AM
pseudonym739
UK, 3 yrs
Princess_of_Subness wrote:
QuietlyComfortable wrote:
Deal breakers!

...I would like to make it very clear that I would not let any of these facts affect whether or not I would date someone...

*sighs*

Well you really aren't shallow enough then! >:o

I use these facts to determine whether I will even say "hello" to someone... :-D

Love (if you are intelligent, pretty, funny and deviant enough),

Princess_of_Shallowness

xxx

It's ok to be shallow as long as you can find hot people who live up to your more important standards of intelligence, humour and deviance! ;)

20 Feb 10, 9:21 AM
Clyde1
UK(NW), 5 yrs

doctorgas wrote:
I'm ... anti-ginger ...

hurumph...

20 Feb 10, 3:33 PM
dedicated_kitty
UK(LN), 3 yrs
QuietlyComfortable wrote:
Deal breakers!

So what are your pet peeves that you overlook in friends, but wouldn't abide in "The One"? What traits are you glad to be well shot of?

Must not (and in no particular order) Have anger issues Take themselves too seriously Have poor personal hygiene Be incapable of communicating Be uncomfortable with affection Lack imagination Mind my love of trashy TV Be unable to voice their opinions Be lacking in enough patience to put up with my consistant worrying

I'll stop before I get into double figures.

20 Feb 10, 3:38 PM
Robert16
UK(OX), 2 yrs
dedicated_kitty wrote:
QuietlyComfortable wrote:
Deal breakers!

So what are your pet peeves that you overlook in friends, but wouldn't abide in "The One"? What traits are you glad to be well shot of?

Must not (and in no particular order) Have anger issues Take themselves too seriously Have poor personal hygiene Be incapable of communicating Be uncomfortable with affection Lack imagination Mind my love of trashy TV Be unable to voice their opinions Be lacking in enough patience to put up with my consistant worrying

I'll stop before I get into double figures.

As long as the opinion that they voice isnt about the crap you are watching on TV

Never drive faster than your angels can fly

20 Feb 10, 3:54 PM
Mr_IRV
UK(G), 3 yrs
Deal breakers, hmm. The number of times i've had this conversation after a few pints...

Females of any sort who aren't feminine.Vanilla girls who suck but don't swallow. Submissive girls who feel they have to keep reminding me they are strong, confident women in their 'real lives'. Dominant girls who are just arrogant. Anyone likely to get offended by their own idiosyncratic interpretation of what they think i'm trying to say. Lack of realism and practicality.

There's a ton of other trivial things that I think are important considerations when i'm hypothesizing but would probably be abandoned the second someone catches my interest and we have chemistry.

20 Feb 10, 4:58 PM
merrynb99
UK(SL), 6 yrs
TheMarquise wrote:
Someone feeling they can train me to need five hours sleep a night. Actually that is justification for homicide not alone a deal breaker!

OMG I'm so with you on that one, M! :)

A little bad taste is like a nice dash of paprika (D. Parker)

20 Feb 10, 11:03 PM
dedicated_kitty
UK(LN), 3 yrs
Robert16 wrote:
dedicated_kitty wrote:
QuietlyComfortable wrote:
Deal breakers!

So what are your pet peeves that you overlook in friends, but wouldn't abide in "The One"? What traits are you glad to be well shot of?

Must not (and in no particular order) Have anger issues Take themselves too seriously Have poor personal hygiene Be incapable of communicating Be uncomfortable with affection Lack imagination Mind my love of trashy TV Be unable to voice their opinions Be lacking in enough patience to put up with my consistant worrying

I'll stop before I get into double figures.

As long as the opinion that they voice isnt about the crap you are watching on TV

Oh no that's ok, just as long as they do it in an ad break.

20 Feb 10, 11:09 PM
Robert16
UK(OX), 2 yrs
When I first got married, farting loudly seemed something that could become a deal breaker. Now, after all these years, I think I've learnt to put up with it and even, on a good day, compete with it!!

Never drive faster than your angels can fly

20 Feb 10, 11:13 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
Ah, the Huffington Post current feminism issue - men not letting women get the sleep they need (we need more than men).

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/arianna-huffington...

I'm not sure I have a definitive list of amusing or even serious deal breakers. (1) Must be hard wired inherently dominant in the right controlling way. (2) Match or better me.

May be that's it.

merrynb99 wrote:
TheMarquise wrote:
Someone feeling they can train me to need five hours sleep a night. Actually that is justification for homicide not alone a deal breaker!

OMG I'm so with you on that one, M! :)

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