a personal draft M/s contract (30)

I dreampt up this draft contract a while ago, I don't have a slave yet, but I have had a sub FwB before and we did lots of D/s session-by-session, I'm also interested in the more continuous variety.

I've got some delayed valentines day blues today!

To pre-empt the flame-artists, I am fully aware, that it is really very long -you don't have to read it all if you don't feel like it, but if you do then don't bitch at me about how long it is! Short has never been one of my best attributes, in any area...

I'm also very aware that it is a very specifically personal kind of contract of what I imagine I want, not what many other people may want. Again, read it only if you enjoy it, and don't bitch at me!

If there are any subs or slaves looking for just the kind of relationship I've described, I am always open to offers of absolute power and as much sex as I want!

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We, ________ & ________, intend, for our mutual pleasure, growth and fulfilment, to undertake together to enter into and to practice gradually becoming more and more thoroughly Master and slave in the domain of our sexual life.

This Master-slave contract is intended to cover exclusively our sexual life, and nothing else. Our finances, when to have children, division of household work and childcare, etc. are definitely not included.

The Master desires a free spirited, strong minded and wild hearted woman to be His willing and enthusiastic slave, and He will not allow her to become passively slavish or weaker in herself by any form of over-dependence on Him. The Master first needs a companion, best friend and lover, while he only desires for her to also be His slave.

We believe absolutely in the fundamental human rights of equality and freedom, and we practice voluntary sexual slavery within and subject to the ultimate complete freedom and moral equality of all people.

We believe sexuality is a noble, profound and meaningful part of our humanity and connected to aims which are of ultimate enduring value. We reject and deny absolutely all notions of sexuality, including desires for dominance and submission, in any real, sensible way as filthy, naughty or superficial.

We believe that by experiencing sexual domination and submission intimately in our daily lives, we can come to better understand the nature of love and power, of the human condition and of society, and become more deeply, genuinely and universally loving, and thus more become more and more fully human.

The following rules are our constitutional rules for our Master-slave relationship, so, within the intention and definitions of these rules, the Master may lay down His own regulations included under them at any later time, but He may not fundamentally change these constitutional rules without gaining the slave's further consent or else voiding this free and mutual contract.

1) The Master shall have absolute power and final authority in all matters of the sexual life of His slave. The Master will use His power for His own and His slave's pleasure, and mutual joy and fulfilment through each other's satisfaction, in different but equal valuable and complimentary roles as Master and slave. The Master encourages His would-be slave to scrutinise thoroughly before electing Him her Master, but then He will assume she has decisively given her complete trust and consent to let Him lead and command her, according to His masterful knowledge and skills, into more sexual fulfilment than she could have dreampt of without Him.

2) The slave makes a free gift contractually/ conventionally of her own ultimately inalienable power and right to control her sexual life to her Master, which she can and should withdraw at any time without requirement of any notice or explanation if she ever feels her trust in His love and care for her diminished or if she finds the contract and relationship overall is no longer giving her the fulfilment she truly wishes for.

3) The safeword, which shall suspend the whole contract immediately, is Red. No other expressions of resistance or refusal by the slave shall be recognised as real or valid withdrawl of consent, as long as the contract is not disavowed. The slave freely gives consent to all sexual acts desired by her Master, however, whenever and with whomever He desires, including especially any acts which she would not consent to in particular apart from her overall consent and desire to realise and develop the M/s relationship.

4) The Master gladly accepts suggestions and welcomes hearing His slave's desires, fantasies and preferences, but will not tolerate any complaint or refusal to obey His final commands, even when those commands directly crush the particular likes and dislikes of His slave. The Master demands to know all His slave's deepest, darkest fantasies, both those she wishes to actually experience and those she does not, and will consider it a deviation if He later finds out she has failed to mention anything that might have helped Him to evoke the groans and moans of uncontrollable bliss from her that He so greatly enjoys.

5) The Master is pleased by resistance offered by His slave, and delights in crushing her resistance brutally. The Master feels His dominance and masterfulness manifest and grow through rising to the challenge of overpowering His slave's playful or sincere attempts to resist Him, therefore the Master desires His slave to offer Him as much resistance as He is actually able, in the particular conditions, to overcome. The Master is not pleased by passivity in his slave, which will be treated as a deviation from the discipline and corrected by shocking punishments to revive her; but to resist more than the Master can actually overpower is to refuse Him, and to refuse His desires is a deviation from the Discipline of sexual slavery. Should the Master judge His slave to have refused Him, as soon as He has His slave again within His control, then He will punish her most severely and put her back in her proper place, at His feet sucking His cock. When the Master occasionally does not want any resistance for a particular reason, He will specifically command against it, with words such as "shut up and take it", so His slave shall have no occasion to worry about what He requires of her.

6) The Master shall have ownership of all His slave's orgasms. In general the Master encourages his slave to enjoy many orgasms regularly, but He may place a temporary rule against His slave masturbating to the point of release for a short period until He intends to next use His slave and take His enjoyment from seeing, hearing and feeling the orgasms in her body, which belongs to Him. The Master has no wish to prevent His slave from masturbating only to arouse herself, as long as she does not release any of her sexual energy apart from His participation or permission. If the Master is not able to be with His slave and take His enjoyment from giving her many orgasms by His own masterful cock or hands for more than two or three days, He will allow and encourage her to masturbate while thinking of Him.

7) The Master-slave relationship we have both freely chosen requires a gradual methodical practice with a clear aim and boundaries, which shall all be called the Discipline. The aim of the Discipline is to immerse ourselves together in the shared mood of Master-slave sexuality, and this is the core meaning of the Discipline. The boundaries of the Discipline are essentially against just two behaviours: refusal and complaint.

8) The Master will give sadistic pain to His slave for his own thrills or when He judges she is in need of painful encouragement or enforcement to submit more deeply to Him. The Master will give regular sadistic attention to His slave for putting her into the state of deep submission and to develop and broaden her experience of sexual submission and slavery. The Master's sadism does not incline to extremes and He has no desire or intention to really harm His slave, so she should immediately mention any concerns if she thinks anything might really harm her. The Master will never use any pain on others greater than He would be willing to accept Himself, and offers an open invitation to His slave to test this promise if she ever wishes.

9) The Master gives sadistic pain as a fundamental part of the Discipline, since the transformation of pain into pleasure through sexual arousal is an essential aspect of the satisfaction in sexual submission. His slave need not do anything even conventionally 'wrong' against the Discipline to deserve the pain her Master gives her, she can be totally blameless and yet receive His sadistic attentions for the sake of both, since through giving pain the Master feels his sadistic sexual dominance come more fully alive and by receiving it His slave feels her masochistic sexual submission manifest and deepen too. Most times the Master applies pain to His slave, it will be completely undeserved by her as a punishment, but it is an intrinsic part of the Discipline and for the mutual enjoyment of both.

10) The Master will punish in particular any deviations from the Discipline, but since the Master has such thrilling enjoyment in using brutality to make His slave submit, He has no reason to even pretend to be angry when His slave deviates from the Discipline. Deviations, however, require more than just maintenance of the state of submission, but require correction from having turned away and forcefully returning the slave to the state of enslavement. When the Master punishes deviations from the complete and absolute sexual submission His slave has given over to Him, He will show His slave her place and put her ultimately back where she belongs, at his feet, kneeling and worshipping His cock. Every punishment shall have three stages: the Master shall use shocking, overwhelming, acute pain to put terror upon His slave, then when He has broken her to His will and she is in a state of shocked masochistic submission, the Master will give His slave more corporal discipline to maintain her in the state of deep submission for some time and firmly establish her again in her remembrance and mindfulness of sexual submission and enslavement to Him, finally the Master shall give His slave consolation and the opportunity to make atonement to Him, by making her kneel at His feet and with appropriate awe and adoration to orally worship His cock.

11) The Master has needs for both hard rough fucking and soft cuddly love-making. Both of these modes of physical intimacy and kinds of sexual love the Master experiences dominantly, and will not allow any refusal or complaint against His demands for gentle intimacy and whole-body cuddles. When the Master commands His slave to sit between his legs, nestling her warm plump ass into his balls, leaning back, resting on his chest and laying her head on his shoulder, leaving her neck open to his love bites, His slave must obey, and she should study the ways her Master loves her to wriggle back more into His balls, or slip her hand down His pants and squeeze, or maul Him like a lustful wild animal in heat. The Master will bite His slave to make His slave wriggle back more into His balls and to drive her into such a frenzy that delights Him, He will squeeze her sex and her whole body between His strong legs and arms, and indulge His slave with total physical control while He suffuses her with the dominant, protective and caring sexual love that radiates from His chest. The Master will determine the amount of time He desires to bask in this kind of physical intimacy, and He will hold back His slave until He is ready, but when He becomes so aroused He urgently has to fuck His slave hard and fast, she should quickly submit to His desire, or she shall risk swiftly incurring the most mighty wrath His hand can bestow upon her sweet ass. The Master wishes His slave to come to Him for physical intimacy whenever and as much as she desires, because he delights in comforting her, as well as hurting her for fun.

12) The Master often desires to tie His slave in tight rope bondage so that she is absolutely vulnerable and cannot escape his savage sexual onslaughts or reduce the ferocity of his loving thrusts, so she should learn, for example, how if she is in doggy position, not to raise her shoulders, or change her Master's positioning of the angle of entry to her vaginal and anal passages reducing the depth of His penetration, or reduce the downward arch of her back or the prominence of her ass which increases the cushioning by her buttocks, because she should know that her Master is thrilled and satisfied when He fucks His slave with maximum depth and force, and she should not resist Him in this. Should His slave move intentionally or inadvertently in any way that reduces the penetration or violence of thrust available to her Master while He is fucking her, He will surely punish her for this as a deviation, with the forms of pain in his hands and his teeth or with implements of torment ready at His side. His slave should study the right times to struggle to amuse and titillate Him by attempting or pretending to resist, and when to stay still so that He can tie ropes neatly, evenly and correctly for her safety, especially for semi- or full suspensions, and so that she will not be too excessively uncomfortable in a way that would distract her from enjoying the hard fucking her Master is giving her, nor necessitate Him to pause from His pleasure to adjust the ropes to take care of her circulation and joints.

13) The Master will have the right of complete sexual access to His slave at all times, in all places and in all ways, finally subject to only His discretion. The slave has given her Master the right to assume her consent to sexually use and enjoy her as and when He desires. The Master will often seek ways to push her beyond her comfort zone, so she should understand and accept being challenged to submit for submission's sake to acts which her Master knows she will really dislike but deliberately demands she submits to for just that reason. The Master will find times to surprise His slave with rape-like sex, both as Himself and role-playing as unknown attackers. The Master will look for opportunities to demand His slave submit sexually to Him in safe and appropriate semi-public places, outside in nature or at BDSM events. His slave should cultivate the attitude of being completely sexually available and receptive to Him at all times, and she also should seek ways to subtly show Him how she is constantly sexually receptive to Him, especially when He least expects it. When the Master is in need of a little encouragement to be more confident and aggressive in His sexual possession of His slave, she should first offer her Master a small manageable challenge, disregarding any slight weakness of confidence, and respond enthusiastically when He rises to her challenge, for she should think how any slight lack of confidence in her Master may be due to her own lack of adequate response to his previous advances, so she should encourage her Master to consider her totally His by showing Him more active submission.

14) The Master has little or no jealousy, and considers jealousy to be immature, insecure foolishness. The Master has manifold desires to share the wonderfulness of His slave, and intends to invite many kinds of people to share and enjoy His sexual life and His slave. At the Master's discretion and solely subject to His final authority, while carefully considering His slave's feelings about particular people He may be considering, the Master may bring males and females, Doms and subs, experienced BDSMers and novices, anybody who He judges to be worthy, to share the enjoyment of His slave and, under His careful direction, He may allow several Dominants with Him to cooperate in dominating, using and enjoying His slave, including multiple penetration. The Master desires someday for His slave's maximum capability to offer resistance to be tested and completely physically overpowered by several Dominants teaming up with Him, holding His slave down for each of the Co-Dom team to use and enjoy. The Master wishes to indulge any fantasies or inclinations His slave may develop to experience domination as well, and will gladly seek out a willing victim, male or female, for His slave to dominate if she ever wishes. The Master's criteria in selecting others to participate in His and His slave's sexual life are: moral-attitudinal compatibility, intelligence but not necessarily intellect or education, transparent sincerity and a fiercely kind heart, and finally that they are not too unattractive physically. The Master's slave shall consider submitting to and sexually servicing those her Master has chosen for her as part of serving Him. The Master encourages His slave to attend to her own sexuality in all forms and not to deny or repress any of her inclinations, but to confess and suggest all her desires to Him. The Master will be pleased to consider anybody His slave desires to experience sexually and will seriously consider inviting whoever His slave desires to share His slave together with Him or separately. The Master considers the inner capacities developed and internalised through sex, intimacy, being loving and practising love as a commitment to be more important and long lasting than the attachments formed to particular people, and so He is unworried by allowing and encouraging His slave to enjoy sex with others, always subject to His prior knowledge and approval. Most importantly, the Master wishes His slave and lover to remain aware she is ultimately free to stay or go, so that He will know when she is with Him it is only because she wishes to be, not because of any sense of obligation or limitation on her personal freedom. In ultimate complete freedom, she gives all her power and right to control her sexual life to her Master, and it is a gift He wishes to make her constantly feel in her whole being that He receives with the deepest gratitude.

15) The Master wishes for His slave to be slim, fit and healthy, as His slave's body is most sexually attractive to Him when she is full of health and vital energy and fit for sex. The Master eats healthily, and requires His slave to do so too, for the most part. Should the slave exceed reasonable moderation in eating tasty but unhealthy foods or become careless in her diet, the Master will punish His slave for her deviation. The Master enjoys regular exercise, and requires His slave to partake too. Should the slave not find her own ways of keeping fit for His purposes, the Master will make His slave accompany Him running and exercising, while spurring her on with those painful encouragements which delight Him. The Master keeps Himself clean, fresh and well groomed, and requires His slave to take good care of herself too. The slave should learn her Master's detailed preferences to make herself most physically attractive to Him: her clothes should be relaxed but elegant, her underwear should be classical black, simple, silky and sexy, her make-up should be minimal and natural-looking, her hair should be long and wild but clean and glossy, her bodily grooming should be leg hair waxed, with pubic and underarm hair trimmed perhaps but not shaved. The slave should pay particular attention to taking good care of her sexual organs and their healthy flora, so that her sex always tastes and smells healthy, fresh like just-exercised sweat and intoxicatingly strongly feminine and inviting to her Master's tongue. Should the Master find His slave's sexual organs not as well cared for as He demands, He will tend His most treasured property Himself, by bathing His slave and massaging probiotic yoghurt into His slave's sex. The Master will not aim to offend His slave's feelings, but He will also not allow His slave to be too over-sensitive about being told when she needs to wash or take better care of His slave property, for she should know with certainty that He loves her for much more than her physical attractiveness to Him. Should the Master have to make good His slave's neglect of her body and sexual organs more often than He enjoys doing, He will consider this to be a deviation and punish His slave accordingly.

16) The Master will not indulge His slave's excessive shyness or phobias that may get in the way of His sexual enjoyment of His slave, but requires His slave to make a reasonable effort to gradually get over all false modesty and unreasonable fears, with His help and support. The Master will not tolerate His slave justifying or wallowing in shyness or phobias, but requires His slave to take a robust attitude to progressively becoming fearless of all but Him. The Master finds satisfaction in gradually pushing and expanding His slave's tolerance of things that scare her for no good reason, for instance, claustrophobia when He puts her in a hood. The slave should consider practising by herself gradually relaxing with things that scare her unnecessarily, so that she does not tyrannise her Master's free reign to use and enjoy His slave however He desires.

17) The Master wishes His slave to understand that the practice and development of a Master-slave relationship is a mutual and gradual process, necessitating perseverance, transparent communication and mutual support, as well as Discipline in different forms for both the slave and the Master. Both the Master and the slave have mutual responsibility ultimately for maintaining and developing the relationship, even though the Master normally has the far more active role in training both His slave and Himself. But with great power comes great responsibility, which takes time to grow into fully. Therefore, when the Master is not manifesting His full masterfulness, His slave should consider it to be her responsibility at those times especially to continue her own training as His slave and also to support His training as her Master by reviving Him with appropriate overcome-able challenges to His power and encouraging Him to possess her by showing active submission to Him. The Master also enjoys receiving as much sexual aggression from His slave as she may feel, and He will absorb the aggression she offers Him and return it on her more strongly and with magnified passion.

18) The Master desires His slave to learn to read His ways and sexual moods in His face and His voice and His cock, and to continuously practice and develop her mirroring responses to her Master's desires. The slave should aim to become so empathic to her Master's sexual energy that she can sometimes read Him faster than He Himself. As well as empathetic learning, the Master wishes His slave to continue her education in sexuality, spirituality and human nature through reading and reflecting, because continuously growing in intelligence, learning and wisdom makes her ever more totally attractive to her Master.

19) The Master wishes His slave to remember her slavery is freely given and and gratefully received, and He wants His slave to clearly communicate to Him as soon as she is truly unhappy, for instance, if He fails to imagine how she will feel as a result of things He says or if He hurts her by misunderstanding her. The Master is physically sadistic, but cannot bear to hurt His slave's feelings. The Master wishes to know as soon as possible if He is emotionally hurting His slave in any way, and will be grateful for the trust and confidence she shows in Him if she tells Him when He is hurting her in the wrong way as soon as she has an opportunity and before getting any more angry or distant from Him.

20) The Master wishes His slave to feel certain and secure in His love, and to know for sure that He loves her far more than He wants her to be His slave, for His purpose in being is to be a Lover first before he is a Master, and He will straightaway release her from enslavement if He thinks the Master-slave aspect of the relationship is harming rather than helping it.

This contract is written in hyperbolic and grandiose prose in order that it be titillating to the sense of humour as well as clear, for sensitivity to humour is a sign of intelligence, and laughing while having riotously good sex is good for the soul and is also known to be a form of alchemy that leads towards Immortality. Writing in the third person, though, is either a sign of insanity or subtly leads towards it, but this is only a Draft.

Signature of slave _____________

Signature of Master ________________

Date _____________

And i dont mean a load of crap just easy reading

My will be done.

They that love not Tobacco & Boies were fooles.

I think I only need one clause, however, - to obey.

I mean no offence in this question....

Why is there a need for a contract such as this ?

If you know someone well and come to perhaps even love them, isnt the understanding and circle of trust all that is needed. If it is not a legally bound contract such as a marriage cert. What significance does it carry? After all, a piece of paper can be just as easily ripped up....

The challenge is to be yourself, in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else......

The trouble comes when your will isn't done and you get hurt!

It's easier and safer to set out the ground rules then there are definitely NO excuses !

The Commander

You're probably right, there probably wouldn't be much need for it when already in a good relationship, I wrote it mainly for my own fantasy enjoyment and a little bit hoping it might help attract somebody who's looking for an unusual kind of M/s relationship like this.

Of course it's not really legally binding outside the circle of the relationship, it's just for clarity between the two partners so the slave knows exactly what they're committing to and that it's not going to turn abusive without them having clearly defined grounds to say 'you're not keeping your side of this, so I'm not going to either'.

Also personally I've lived in a special kind of committed lifestyle before, as a monk, and that turned bad -I eventually ended up really resenting the way the institution and the abbots ignored the constitutional rules of the order (among many other things). So I personally relate to constitutions unusually deeply... sounds ridiculously geeky and heavy, I know, so I wouldn't go on about it, but that's one reason I like clarity in the beginning of relationships.

If I was to select just one line as its summary, it'd be the first line of the first point "The Master shall have absolute power and final authority in all matters of the sexual life of His slave".

Why would I get hurt if my will isn't done? I'm not offended by people having their own wills, it's just it can be satisfying and fun to be given control of somebody, but if they change their minds that's fair enough.

No excuses for the slave wimping out, and no excuses for the Master really abusing the slave emotionally either. Clarity in the beginning helps both sides to trust each other and have confidence in the relationship they're committing to and in their different roles.

That's why I wanted to write something describing a relationship and then only rules on a 'constitutional' kind of level rather than pedantic details, because details can all change but what matters is the overall underlying feeling and principles of the relationship.

It's called ritual. One thing about BDSM is that sublimates sexual desires into the ritual and symbolic.

We don't "need" contracts, chains, chastity devices or rubber mini skirts. We like them, we find them sexy.

In regards to the OP's contract: blimey, my own written is one tenth of that

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I don't think it's possible to make rules against sighing or being weary and sad about a relationship. That already sounds pathological on the side of the one designing the contract to me.

I think to get serious enough to actually want to try continuous ongoing M/s, there'd have to be a good relationship as foundation there first, and that'd always remain more important to me.

What I really meant about 'no complaining' was specifically complaining about sexual acts, not issues in the relationship. (And I'm not really that bothered with complaining either, it's mainly just manufacturing an excuse to flog her because it's fun!) If she's still happy with me/Me, then I'd expect her to submit to whatever I want to try (harmless things) or face the consequences, but if she's looking really unhappy with me/Me or our relationship, then I'd drop the M/s aspect rightaway and ask her if she's unhappy and why.

The loving relationship as free adults has to come first, an M/s layer imho should be just icing on the cake.

Really enjoyed it.