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| Sun 14 Feb 10, 7:59 PM Adomination UK(M), 2 yrs   |
So really it isn't even hard to grasp......
It is simplicity in itself............ I am the Domme......... what I say goes......hahahahahahaha I could be a real wicked fucking bitch, if it weren't for the fact that I am kind and caring and oh so tender hearted. But don't piss me off on a full moon, lol. So after all this time I don't even have to do anything different, it is just me being me, only with a crop and some rope and some sexy nazi boots. lol Awesome x Edited Sun 14 Feb 10, 8:14 PM by Adomination | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 8:26 PM Commander_Kwaaab UK(SW), 7 yrs |
I believe that is the job description. Crack on Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Bloody Satnav | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 8:30 PM friendly_Paradox UK(NN), 6 yrs |
Eureka (but a little something by Ralph Lauren in appropriate places will sort that out). Yes, you do have it. Being a good domme/dom or sub has to mean being ourselves before anything else. We can learn from others, discover and try new things, but if we are trying to be something we are not, being something different, then it just don't stack up.
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| 14 Feb 10, 8:41 PM Adomination UK(M), 2 yrs |
lmao x
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| 14 Feb 10, 8:47 PM Intelligencia UK(GU), 5 yrs |
It may seem simplicity itself to you but, to some, it is like climing the north face of the eiger! I suggest you write a book in simple terms to explain it to less enlightened folk. Every second of every hour of every day
I am Number 3 | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 9:07 PM FreeKinker UK(PE), 10 yrs |
Sounds a bit Eliza Dolittle LOL I think she's got it! It really is about being you, and finding out what you want. BDSM is a menu of things to try, when and how you want to.
Of course there is an aspect of knowing your sub, their limits and what pushes their buttons, otherwise have all the fun you can exploring what you want and they will love you for it
vMaster aka Mike
Web Site: http://www.vmaster.me.uk/ | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 9:09 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
You Bastard!!
“If you find it hard to laugh at yourself, I would be happy to do it for you.” | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 9:21 PM Cleric UK(M), 11 yrs    |
I suppose some things can't be taught, only learned. I knew you'd get there eventually.  Manchester FAB Munch | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 9:30 PM BadWulf UK(TA), 6 yrs |
Hmm now you have entered the first circle honorable acolyte I will pull aside the veil a little more for you and give a you a slightly better version.
Its just you, relaxing into being who you are, and enjoying it Nazi boots are genuinely optional..... A knot book usually isn't! - Wulfy
My, what sharp teeth I have. Edited 14 Feb 10, 9:31 PM by BadWulf | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 10:26 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs    |
Lovely post - I have to agree 100%, there are no rules, there is no secret society, it's simply living your life the way you wish to, and knowing that if you have a partner you have the choice to control them (where they have given their consent). It doesn't mean you have to micromanage every aspect and become SuperUberDom/me - well not unless that's what you want. It's beautiful, it's simple, it's easy - if you allow it to be. Enjoy every minute!!! XxX | ||
| 14 Feb 10, 11:11 PM Shaydes UK(W), 9 yrs |
I knew I was lacking something, but there was me thinking it was a submissive! You learn something every day, eh? Think outside the box if you will, but I still have you tied up inside it! |
