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| 12 Feb 10, 5:06 PM subvertigo UK(EH), 3 yrs |
Plugs generally can get quite uncomfortable after some time, and not in a good way! I've found that anal locks are much easier to wear for extended periods of time... but silicone lube is a must or it will hurt like hell getting it out | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 5:29 PM maidtina UK, 4 yrs |
Shape is more important than size. Some plugs I can only keep in for 20 minutes or so, but my N-Joy stainless steel plug I can sleep in. I recommend those, just bare in mind that the sizes are different than for normal plugs - about one size smaller compared to the rubber ones you normally get. | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 5:29 PM just_tope 6 yrs |
This is what I was talking about. Great little item, and in different sizes too. Not cheap but well worth the money. The narrow base makes it perfect, anything wider than that at the entry and I'm struggling. Used with a mild lubricant it can be worn extensively. "If confusion is the first step to knowledge, I must be a genius" ~ Larry Leissner Edited 12 Feb 10, 5:30 PM by just_tope | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 6:36 PM DrTaps AQ, 10 yrs |
The following is based purely on my own experience and other people will have different views of course. I think the shape of the one you are using may be the problem because it doesn't have much of a "neck" that the sphincter can close around. Makes it less comfortable and also harder to keep in. Tantus do or did a good silicone one with a decent neck and not too big (Ryder?), but the neck is wide enough to make the sphincter slightly less resistant to penetration if that is the idea. The stainless steel ones with a jewel at the end are good because being metal the neck is quite thin so there is a very marked "neck", the same being true of the glass ones also referred to. I find the stainless steel one is the better one for longer wear (a few hours sometimes) Lubricant, I can't vouch for silicone lubes, but I can for the Sliquid thick anal lube. Don't need lube with stainless steel in my experience, but then I usually put a condom over butt plugs which also helps avoid discomfort. Hope this helps. | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 7:07 PM vixylix 2 yrs |
http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/serv... It's only a small one, but I am having success with this one. Have kept it in for over an hour without too much discomfort (apart from that annoying feeling of wanting to push!!! hee hee...but not uncomfortable). It's my first and only for now, but I do recommend it.
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| 12 Feb 10, 7:38 PM Stephen_London UK(NW), 3 yrs |
Hmmm - those plugs look good quality (see vid on love honey - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12603#v... ) And the large and extra large are a decent size. Worth adding to the collection....... Sir Stephen http://www.sirstephen.co.uk | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 7:40 PM BarbieSlutLoki UK(E), 6 yrs |
As a cheapy you could always get one of those inflatable chairs with the built in dildos, it would look funny at least The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club... | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 7:42 PM scrubberboysw2 7 yrs |
A castle up the arse? Doesn't take much to please you winkle X. | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 9:46 PM Spongey UK(SN), 3 yrs |
the only materials i wud recommend as an avid anal whore that i wud keep in for an extended period of time are: metal(steel, aluminium), wood, delrin(plastic) they dont grip the rectum lining like materials such as silicone or rubber. Butter wouldn't melt x Edited 12 Feb 10, 10:07 PM by Spongey | |||
| 12 Feb 10, 9:56 PM dangerousdonkey 2 yrs |
I too would recommend a metal butt plug, there's something about the weight and material that make it very wearable for extended periods. try it and I bet you will be able to manage much more than half an hour |