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Isn't this also objectification and what this blog has been complaining about?

What is a Caracal?
The nice lady with the whip.

Ms_Tytania wrote: Wow! You must be in love with me, because you didn't point out at my typo, "heals", instead of "heels"

Of course I am, you have dommely pictures to ogle, what more could any man want

Far be it from me to correct a superior dommely one, if you decree that's the way it will be spelt from now on, so shall it be.

Besides, "Heals have more of my favourite things"

Advert circa "some years ago" http://www.heals.co.uk/

So..

"If a car you bought on a very cheap deal,

while driving along breaks a wheel,

you get out to examine it and break a heel,

you vent your angst by giving your slave wheals,

although time will heal wheals, it won't heal heels,

or wheels that you bought in bargain deals."

I know, I'm being silly, I'll stop.

Edited 12 Feb 10, 8:33 PM by Trussedworthy

Perhaps a little too much info, probably won't get many memo's saying "we have everything in common", but when it comes to short you seem to have that one covered.

trussed_me wrote: Ms_Tytania wrote: Wow! You must be in love with me, because you didn't point out at my typo, "heals", instead of "heels" ..you have dommely pictures to ogle..

Actually, having said that I thought I'd better go and check (I know it's a sub's duty to check every domme's profile and send 10 memos a day, apologies for slacking there )

Seeing your "Trample the malcontents!" photo from Pedestal jogged my memory, I was there watching you pose for those pics! (as were some other ICers I did get to know, it's a small world we inhabit).

May even have said hello but I had no idea who you were at the time, (well that and you looked scary)

Maybe next time, when you're not looking too busy of course..

Edited 12 Feb 10, 8:32 PM by Trussedworthy

I've lost count of the times I've replied trying not to hurt feelings, because it's a generous offer no matter what I think about it deep inside (more of that later)*. But where is the appeal of spending one or two hours with a perfect stranger, only to find out that have nothing in common? Stilted conversation, nerves, general awkwardness, no fun... and the bill is on you.

*More of that now: My suspicion is that these people think that by inviting you to lunch, they are buying you to a certain extent, and once the bill has been paid, you should feel obliged to pay them back in some form. And since I hear you are a Dominand lady, how about a bit of slap and tickle to this subbie who was soooo generous with you, Mithtweth?

"People are inherently evil, but very, very funny" - Joe Orton.

You're obviously both very sociable ladies who get out to a lot of events thus giving people alternative opportunities to meet you.

In the case of someone who never goes out to events maybe it's a more appropriate approach to take to arrange a first meeting.

Personally I'd like to meet or least talk online in depth to someone before asking them to lunch or dinner, certainly not something to be posed in an introductory memo. I wouldn't feel they're obliged to give anything in return should they accept though, apart from maybe an hour or so of pleasant conversation.

With regard to context though, I'm guessing it's likely that anyone who sends out invitations in first memos to people based entirely upon what's written in an online profile, whether kinky or on 'nilla dating sites, may have hopes you'll be "game" for more if you readily accept.

hey ho