Novices_R_Us's profile . Novices_R_Us group posts
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| Newmastermatt |
Hiya,to be honest wth you all, I am very new to all of this and so am looking for a inexperienced sub who is looking to explore her submissive side.
Not at all experienced and so am wondering if any submissives would like to explore her submissive side with me
| 12 Feb 10, 8:06 PM hullraiser 3 yrs  |
I'm in the same boat as you newdommatt, good luck !
Excuse me Miss, does this handkerchief smell of chloroform? | |||
| 15 Feb 10, 1:10 AM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
Best advice to you both would be to get out to a local munch and/or club and meet people in real life. they tend not to be as scarey in the flesh as they appear on IC. Well, most of them anyway 
Good luck and enjoy If you're gonna fiddle, you have to be prepared to get wet! | |||
| 15 Feb 10, 11:04 AM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
She is right! Plus, look for an experienced sub to lead you into the mystery: no point in the blind leading the blind eh! Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. Edited 15 Feb 10, 11:09 AM by Belasarius | |||
| 18 Feb 10, 12:53 AM hullraiser 3 yrs |
If only it was that simple! Subs tend to want experience. Excuse me Miss, does this handkerchief smell of chloroform? | |||
| 19 Feb 10, 4:12 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs |
Not always the case - there have been threads on this before with a number saying quite the opposite - wish i could find them Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. | |||
| 20 Feb 10, 3:53 AM Top_Class UK(GU), 2 yrs |
The boat's filling up, as I'm in it too (and I started this group). I'm 24 days older than @newdommatt and months and months younger than @defendhull and took the approach of creating a scene first (so to speak) and suggesting it to anyone who contacted me/I contacted. That meant I got masses of help by way of memos to improving scene negotiation, creating the thought of an erotic experience, planning how to choreograph it in the real-world, what equipment I'd need, where it should be stationed, what order to do stuff, what is the climax of the scene (not a silly question), how do you start, how do you end; while being totally honest about what I can and cannot do; while working out what I do want to learn and what I don't (not into scat, blood, gore or watersports). The people who have been helping me are all experienced and I am now playing in the real-world with experienced people who know I'm very new and have a gentle scene to be in charge of, using control techniques which any adult should normally have at their disposal (plus 1 riding crop left over from when I used to ride. Always struggled to hit the horse, poor dumb thing. No probs using it now!).
"Fork handles?" "No, not 'fork handles' ... four candles." | |||
| 7 Oct 11, 6:02 PM HeelHussy UK(B), 4 yrs |
Good plan. Cheers. Though I am struggling to find a 'look' for myself. Problem is I love wearing heels. Any thoughts on a male dom in heels anyone? Then I can get on with my scene perhaps xx John | |||
| 7 Oct 11, 6:18 PM Ember2b1 UK(WV), 12 mths |
She is right, go meet real people they are overall a pretty friendly group (my bold).
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