'Beating Up' (16)

And this is you not being rude?

Tell ya what - if she can't lay those bruises on her own, I'll be happy to help.

love the brave but avoid cowards, knowing the gratitude of cowards is small ~Praxilla of Sicyon

Having trained in various martial arts for more years than I care to remember, I have to quote what several of the instructors have said, dosent matter how well you prepare or how strong or tough you are all it takes is one lucky/unlucky hit and your in the s***.

If you insist on trying it use some form of glove/sparring mitt, as it help to stop injury to yourself and also protect your partners hands.

I don't believe anyone should Beat-Up another, if they don't what to be. But if concenting it can be fun. I had friend she liked to tie me to the 4 posts of the bed. Then punch my body really hard. She got a big buzz out of it.

Yeah, i would suggest playing with a proper sadistic bitch as then you would get beaten up properly.... as in for real... as in hurt... as in who gives a fuck about being safe... as in oh my god ive assulted him.... as in yeah and he fucking deserved it....

~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~

Interesting discussion, I agree with Searcher1, wb270 is an excellent site and a female wrestler may be just the ticket - I am a bikini wrestler myself and it is a very safe environment - for example there are, generally speaking, submissions and pins.

Submissions do just that - they slowley increase the pressure until the other person submits.

Pins, on the other hand, are not designed to be painful in themselves, the challenge is to get out of them!

With both these you can really experiment with pain, yet stay safe - I've wrestled men twice my size and I do get into some sticky situations, but it is geared so that as soon as it gets too much I can tap out. Equally I've wrestled some tiny men and in that case I am the one gradually stepping up the moves, testing their pain barrier, playing around with it and seeing how they react.

It does take some responsibility on behalf of the partner at the bottom(at least to begin with), because unlike other fetishes it is important to tap out because these moves can break things if applied too strongly and it can be hard to tell for particular moves, so good communication is important. If you want to be a punch-bag you can be, but again, there needs to be clearly defined limits and good communication.

Wrestling studios are also ideal, because there is space and proper mats, wrestling on beds is fun, but they are so small so if you are trying it out you will probably do more damage falling off the bed than from the fighting!

If anyone would like to learn some moves as a couple at the studio I work at, I would be happy to. If she's nervous then it may be a good opportunity as it is a safe and private environment with someone who is trained. Equally if you just want to chat about it, do memo me and I'll be happy to discuss.

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