'Beating Up' (14)

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Mon 8 Feb 10, 8:35 PM
Goth_Widow_Slave
UK, 2 mths
I recall a recent post where a Dom talked about "beating up" their sub without weapons, i.e. fists, hands, knees and feet, obviously with the sub's concurrence. I think I also read somewhere about a role reversal with a Domme doing the same to a male sub.
This set me fantasising about the same thing myself as a male sub - God knows why, but I did. My Domme has resisted the idea so far, worrying about hurting me too much (although She gave me a damn nasty bruise with a stiletto heel in the side of the abdomen which has endured for 4 weeks now).
So, are there any "safety tips" for this kind of activity? Funny enough, I'm not too worried, but She is, and perhaps with your "tips" I can convince her. She's a strong woman, by the way - She did karate once and on a good day can beat me at an arm wrestle.
In my mind, I have gone even further. I imagine us being out on a walk in the country, Her in the lead of course, me trailing behind, and in a guaranteed quite spot She takes me into the trees and "does" me there, leaving me groaning on the ground as She marches off for me to catch up as I'm able to. Her concern here is being spotted by some busybody birdwatcher with binoculars and She gets arrested for assault!
Again, any more advice in that field?
Hell, this game has made me weird!
Edited Mon 8 Feb 10, 8:38 PM by Goth_Widow_Slave

9 Feb 10, 12:36 PM
searcher1
UK(N), 5 yrs

I answer 'tongue in cheek' - Look for female wrestlers. Many exist and some quite amazing to watch in action. http://www.wb270.com would be very useful (choose frames view).
I once tried and scared the hell out of myself after 30 seconds. To me the problem was the fantasy made myself out to be strong and the reality proved the exact opposite. My clever scripting meant the lady in question (who luckily detected it was not going to work quickly) was to be intense. LOL
Michael
It never hurts, it only tingles (yeah right!)

9 Feb 10, 5:25 PM
OllieVW
UK(EH), 11 mths

There are plenty of ways.
I boxed for 15 years (now my secret is out ) so my advise is start off maybe with a set of sparring gloves, then move onto low ounce boxing gloves, then bag mits then bare hands.
Get an old thin mattress and wrap it around you, tie it on this is very effective for reducing visable signs i.e. bruises.
I can remember in my mis-spent youth being flung in a cell, mattress thrown over me and beaten with battons, not a mark on me but boy did it hurt and for days after.
If your worried about teeth get a mouth guard, and even a head guard so you can get some serious head punches.
Its all trial and error but like anything the more you do the better you become.
The fact that she has been previously trianed to punch properly is a major advantage as a broken finger especially the THUMB is common.
Broken nails will ensure you get the beating of a lifetime
If you train your body it will cope with increased levels of pain.
As for doing this outside, theres always a risk of someone seeing you so only advise i can give on that is pick your location sensibly.

Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me! Hit me! Je t'adore, ich liebe dich, Hit me! hit me! hit me! Hit me with your rhythm stick. Hit me slowly, hit me quick. Hit me! Hit me! Hit me!
Ian Dury & the Blockheads
Edited 9 Feb 10, 5:29 PM by OllieVW

9 Feb 10, 6:41 PM
ocimum_sanctum
UK(EH), 6 mths

Goth_Widow_Slave wrote:
So, are there any "safety tips" for this kind of activity? Funny enough, I'm not too worried, but She is, and perhaps with your "tips" I can convince her. She's a strong woman, by the way - She did karate once and on a good day can beat me at an arm wrestle.
In my mind, I have gone even further. I imagine us being out on a walk in the country, Her in the lead of course, me trailing behind, and in a guaranteed quite spot She takes me into the trees and "does" me there, leaving me groaning on the ground as She marches off for me to catch up as I'm able to. Her concern here is being spotted by some busybody birdwatcher with binoculars and She gets arrested for assault!
Again, any more advice in that field?
I'm not trying to advice you against doing this, nor take a "safety police" angle but you do sound slightly complacent. Your Domme is right to be careful.
In any event, given she's done karate in the past, I would expect you may have a hard time trying to convince her: most of the techniques in karate are intended to kill or severely injure the other person in as expedient manner as possible, and they are surprisingly difficult to unlearn.
If you are seriously planning on going ahead with this, it is something you'll want to practice beforehand (in the safety of your own home) and start small then build up. She'll be able to hit you without any body weight behind it, try that first.
Also, if you're planning on getting hit around the head at all: I'd personally advise sticking with punches (no open hand techniques) and without gloves. It sounds counter-intuitive but you can slap someone significantly harder than a punch before breaking your own hand - gloves will protect the knuckles and hence allow more momentum to be transferred. Probably not quite so applicable with the rest of the body though.

9 Feb 10, 7:39 PM
BooteDom
UK(NR), 4 yrs
Y!
I have done this with a male sub at his request.I was very circumspect at first.I used sparring gloves and concentrated on the thighs and shoulders with a few stomach punches,but not so hard.I suppose boxers take this all the timebut it does feel a bit vicious until you get used to it.

10 Feb 10, 10:35 PM
LostProperty
UK(CW), 8 yrs
I totally get off on the whole 'getting beaten up' idea, but recognise that in reality, whom ever was giving me the beating would have to pull their blows so as not to do anything that might break rather important things like bones and I don't really think a black eye looks all that sexy. That said I love the physicality of being hurt that way and that fact it is rather less controlled than in regular play; it makes it feel that big realer and edgier.
The only thing I would say, echoing the thoughts of others on this thread, is if you are going to do anything like this, then I don't feel a public place is necessarily the most sensible place to do it; if anyone were to witness it they would almost certainly call the police if not wade in as a good Samaritan.
Remember that after doing it, you'd still have to walk back to the car and given your Domme is a little uncomfortable about it anyway, the last thing she will want is you trailing behind, battered and bruised drawing attention from innocent dog walkers or passers by.
XX LoStPrOpeRtY XX
...Lost, no longer wanting to be found

11 Feb 10, 5:29 PM
saggyfanny
UK(PO), 2 yrs

I too have asked my Queen to inflict this on me. Historically and as ever present in the newspapers the man goes to the pub has a few beers then comes back and lays in to the poor wife, girlfriend etc. I hate this and no women should be subjected to it, BUT to re-address the balance I have asked my Queen to do exactly that to me. Hope this does not offend anyone it is just my view. Women are not punch bags, it should be us men.

11 Feb 10, 6:34 PM
Manteau
UK(S), 2 mths

saggyfanny wrote:
I too have asked my Queen to inflict this on me. Historically and as ever present in the newspapers the man goes to the pub has a few beers then comes back and lays in to the poor wife, girlfriend etc. I hate this and no women should be subjected to it, BUT to re-address the balance I have asked my Queen to do exactly that to me. Hope this does not offend anyone it is just my view. Women are not punch bags, it should be us men.
No doubt you'll correct me if i'm wrong; but are you not confusing assault (dressed up as domestic violence-whatever the gender) with informed consent?
Suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great Calamities with cheerfulness, not through insensibility but through greatness of mind. Aristotle

11 Feb 10, 7:17 PM
jules9
UK(WA), 12 mths

saggyfanny wrote:
Women are not punch bags, it should be us men.
So men who suffer domestic violence deserve it?
Sorry, but it's a tender subject, and I think you need to choose your words more carefully when addressing it. This site is about BDSM - not abuse.
XxX

12 Mar 10, 11:44 PM
squeezeme
UK, 2 yrs
Y!
jules9 wrote:

saggyfanny wrote:
Women are not punch bags, it should be us men.
So men who suffer domestic violence deserve it?
Sorry, but it's a tender subject, and I think you need to choose your words more carefully when addressing it. This site is about BDSM - not abuse.
XxX
Not to be rude. But on the fun side. At 17 st I bet you could dish out some brusies to a guy. xxx

13 Mar 10, 12:02 AM
just_cassie
UK(BN), 2 yrs
squeezeme wrote:

jules9 wrote:

saggyfanny wrote:
Women are not punch bags, it should be us men.
So men who suffer domestic violence deserve it?
Sorry, but it's a tender subject, and I think you need to choose your words more carefully when addressing it. This site is about BDSM - not abuse.
XxX
Not to be rude. But on the fun side. At 17 st I bet you could dish out some brusies to a guy. xxx
*Sighs*... three misunderstandings in one...
@saggyfanny... get off your female supremacy horse... people who WANT to be punchbags should be allowed to be so...
@jules9.. I agree... I think...
@squeezeme... you're just f*ckin rude...
cassie x

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