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| 8 Feb 10, 11:21 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs    |
Completely forgot about that point. This is very very true. I have only one client who lives in my town and he's single. "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 11:34 PM Ksoc_Tuppep UK, 2 yrs |
It's a shame and guilt thing. I've never admitted using Pro Dommes to anyone (this is close to an anonymous post). Why ? Social reaction. There's even some stigma within certain parts of the community to using pro Dommes. And with the extensions of tolerance to sexual minorities using a Pro Domme is one of the few things that could affect your job or career. The guilt trip society lays on the exploitation of women. The Pro Dommes I have seen have all been mature (40+), long time Pro Dommes, well equipped premises, no signs of any addictions or mental illness, backgrounds coming from lap dancing and strip shows rather than due to familial abuse (although this was post play chat - not a psychiatric session). But still even though THEY consented and THEY seemed happy in what they were doing, albeit it was a job with its ups and downs, society still makes you feel bad for "using" women. You fail as a man if you have to pay for it. Although in truth the guilt and the fear probably add to the sexual charge in using Pro Dommes. | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:02 AM Ms_Tytania_London 3 yrs |
I'm in awe. You must be such a nice person, that all pro-Dommes you've ever visited told you the story of their lives. Now you can come here to enlighten the plebs. Did they cry on your shoulder too? so from your awesome expertise in all think pro-Dommes, which is my background? Stripper or finger fucked by Uncle Dave at age 7? Behold my updated website , worms! Edited 9 Feb 10, 12:05 AM by Ms_Tytania_London | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:02 AM the_unsub 2 yrs |
True, true. It's a lot like with clubs as well. I think I actually felt more comfortable going to clubs in other cities as opposed to the (now defunct) club in my home city. Risk of encountering someone I know is minimal. I suppose for many people it helps with the comfort zone. Try again. Fail again. Fail better. - Samuel Beckett | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:05 AM Charlie_G UK, 2 yrs  |
Fixed that for you.
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| 9 Feb 10, 12:09 AM Mistress_Star 5 yrs £ |
I also turn down around 50% of calls I get.I agree with all of the reasons LAB stated but I would say the number one reason I turn down clients is because they ask for sexual services. The second most common reason is because the caller has already booked a session with me then failed to turn up. I'm not daft, if you no-show I keep your number programmed into my phone and mark it as a no-show so I don't rebook the same person. I find it totally mind boggling, the ammount of men who call me and have no recolection of booking a session then failing to turn up. On a lighter note I once refused to accept a returning client because at the start of the session he presented me with a bunch of ornimental cabbages. Nuff said. Non autre volonte que la sienne | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:19 AM Ksoc_Tuppep UK, 2 yrs |
Uncalled for and unfair. Any expertise I might have, and none was specifically claimed, related to one specific topic - my own personal experience. My point was this - I've chatted to the Pro Dommes who I've seen as a client. I've also talked to Pro Dommes I've met in the scene, not as a client. All of them seemed intelligent, street smart if not academic but some with high academic qualifications, they did not appear to be addicted to anything, no sign of a pimp for want of a better word, no sign that what they were doing distressed them. For all intents and purposes they were women who'd chosen to do what they did freely, and they were as happy or happier in what they were doing as most people with jobs. All were happy with me as a client (except my infrequency) and all would have seen, or indeed as far as I am aware would see, me again. Yet despite all of this part of me feels guilt at sessioning with a Pro Domme because society hammers home so strongly that prostitution exploits women. There are other reasons why I feel guilt as well but if SHE wants to sell me the service and I want to buy the service why should that be wrong ? But the guilt is still there even though I , occasionally at least, overcome it. Your virulent reaction might say more about you than about what I said. | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:26 AM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
Pathetic Delphian, pathetic.
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:29 AM CookieMonster UK, 6 yrs |
Welcome to the PD forum.
Great Username lol. | |||
| 9 Feb 10, 12:35 AM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £ |
I think you should read these few articles: http://www.professionaldomination.co.uk/articles... http://www.professionaldomination.co.uk/articles... http://www.professionaldomination.co.uk/articles... They may change your views on a few things. |
