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| 8 Feb 10, 4:41 PM CookieMonster UK, 6 yrs  |
lol thats rich, please eplain to me again why Lilly allen is an intellectual? How many peer reveiwed papers has she published? do you really think you are an expert judge in these matters?
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| 8 Feb 10, 4:48 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
Yes I do. I have skills that is shared by only a very few PDs. Clients *do* travel the country to see me. You seem to have this idea that all PDs are the same. You are very very wrong. You underestimate our clients. They are not all the same, we are not all the same. Clients will travel a long way for their particular fantasies to be fulfilled by the right PD. "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 4:49 PM Doghouse_Reilly UK(MK), 6 yrs  |
Wow. It's like you're going for some sort of world record for how far you can throw your toys out of the pram. Do you measure how high they go or how far they land from the pram itself to get the score? Does it count if the toy bounces? Do bears bounce? “Some people never go crazy, What truly horrible lives they must live” Edited 8 Feb 10, 4:50 PM by Doghouse_Reilly | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 4:51 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 6 yrs £ |
Absolutely agreed. I have people travel from Yorkshire, Scotland etc to see me because they want to submit to me and my particular style of Domination which is not shared by Dommes in their area. Of course, you would try to find someone you didn't have to travel to the ends of the earth for.... but as LAB says, not all PDs are the same - in fact we're incredibly individualistic! | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 4:55 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
Oh and throwing the 'Dominatix Toxemia' thing at us just because we don't agree with you, and *shock, horror* question your approach, is a bit pathetic isn't it? It's like some fabled giant stick with which you can beat us if we get 'too above ourselves'. You're not the only one guilty of doing this incidentally.
The fact is, if I, or any of my peers, 'suffered' from this do you really think we would be mixing with plebs and other assorted riff-raff on a BDSM board? Because surely that is what we would think if we did have DT, no? "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 4:56 PM Ms_Tytania_London 3 yrs |
I don't know what Lily Allen has to do with anything. Probably something I said years ago and your superior brain misinterpreted, as per usual. It wouldn't be the first time that I have to explain to you in long memos, veeeery slowly and in very simple English, how you misunderstand people's posts. October Journal this forum isn't, but it seems to be to you. I'm not calling myself an expert at anything, but even being a bloody foreigner, I understand what people say in here, better than you.
Behold my updated website , worms! Edited 8 Feb 10, 4:57 PM by Ms_Tytania_London | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 4:59 PM the_unsub 2 yrs |
Trolls are a a bit like squirrels. If you start feeding them they'll keep coming back for more. And while they may seem amusing at first them seem less so when they're found their way in to your attic and start chewing on the wiring. Try again. Fail again. Fail better. - Samuel Beckett | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 5:08 PM lisal 8 yrs |
This And because I can't do the double quotes thing I'd like to (as a sub who sees PDs and knows others in the same position) strongly support Mistress Susannah's earlier post about being honest about the reasons why she won't see someone In the plethora of timewasters out there it's easy to forget that there are many subs who are genuine and who see (or wish to see) PDs for a myriad of reasons. As has been said before sessioning with a PD doesn't work for everyone and that's something I fully respect But for some, seeing a PD is lifeblood BDSMwise (and pehaps relationship wise) and it's hugely important that they see someone who is on the same wavelength as them and who they can connect with. That's why I think it's important (for this kind of client) that a PD is honest about not seeing them - and honest about why they aren't going to see them. For some, it may simply be about different interests (and I do know PDs who will refer in this situation); for some it may be about not hitting it off on a personal level; for some it may be that their approach is wrong... In all these instances an honest and clear explanation from the PD will be invaluable Other clients may be one offs and/or there for a quick fix BDSM wise. Again, a PD makes a choice about whether they are happy to see this kind of client. Some will and some won't but my general experience is that usually there is a PD out there that will fit with most kinds of subs (and their varying interests) And then there are the timewasters - the bane of a PDs life. I totally get that there are a major source of irritation, wasted time etc etc. I'd only say from a subs pov that sometimes the timewasters don't set out to be so Long post but I do like to get across the subs side of things occasionally
I'd end by saying that, also in my experience, PDs know what they are about and I'd never ever consider suggesting to one how to run her affairs
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| 8 Feb 10, 5:21 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs |
You're a wise man. You'll live long.
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |||
| 8 Feb 10, 5:26 PM lisal 8 yrs |
Well, hopefully, till my next session on Thursday at least (peers anxiously at the weather forecast)
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