Sub space without pain? (57)

yes, that was me on Thursday night. Lots of rope and listenng intently to instructions being given to me (by a photographer) and I felt myself starting to go into subspace. I didn't even necessarily perceive the situation to be D/s but I recognised myself relaxing into the hands of someone I clearly trusted and respected for their skills - the very same way I feel with my Dom.

So no I certainly don't need pain but often it reinforces the power exchange and, for me, reinforces my trust of the Dom.

This is not just any scene, This is an S&M scene xx

its a wonderful feeling both sides of the rope and a hard thing to find in intensity

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." ~Marilyn Monroe.

I've brought the light of bdsm into our relationship and now i suffer the consecueces ... and the not-consecuences

For example, sitting in a crowded waiting room at my GP surgery, not knowing how long I'm going to be waiting, surrounded by screaming kids. The stress and irritation builds up and then when I reach the point where I realise there's nothing I can do and I might as well just accept it, I get the most bizarre (and delicious) sensation of buzziness/floatiness/safety.

It's only a tiny taste of real subspace, but it's a very odd thing to get unexpectedly. Makes the day better, though!

TP

I'd say there's a couple of different types for me. One is when I go all floaty due to prolonged restrictive bondage - left to just be like that and I'll most likely experience a different mental state (and quite nice it is too).

Another is what I'd probably call subspace, and I find it much harder to pin down what might lead to that, but it's definitely that altered state of feeling very submissive, very humble. Oddly enough I had a dream this morning about a very simple submissive act that led to feeling this in the dream - and even when I woke the sensation was still there for a while.

The other state, the one caused by pain - I've maybe been there once or twice, so it's pretty damn rare, and not something I particularly ever expect or hope to achieve. Usually for me pain keeps me very grounded in the here and now rather than sending me off to la-la-land.

Lots new there then...

I'd be curious to know whether you remember feeling this before encountering subspace in a more conventional way? I've not visited subspace myself but I find my memory plays strong and fascinating tricks on me in other ways with patterns of sensations and almost folds in time.

I can it there is a knife involved.... im out like a light and doesnt have to be any pain what so ever.

ETA:~ oh yeah and any form of really restrictive bondage.

~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~