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| tazallie |
on Sat 6 Feb 10, 1:08 PM to the Novices_R_Us group.
Perhaps for other newbies it might be helpful if we shared our experiences, the good and the bad be it last month or x years ago.
It may give them a frame of refrence, help them to realise they aren't alone as we were all newbies once and to know that it's not all doom and gloom (hopefully lol)
| 6 Feb 10, 1:19 PM tazallie UK, 2 yrs |
For me it was scary and exhilrating and I made mistakes. But I also learnt so much about myself. I met many Doms online who believed they knew me better than I knew myself and for a short while I got hooked into it, luckily I had met sone great people though who helped me see the stupidity of what I was doing. For the first few weeks I lost all common sense it seems in hindsight, I was new to this wonderful new world and acted like a kid let loose in a sweetie shop. How daft was I? But I think it's easy to get caught up in the emotions. For the first time I felt free to be me, but in that freedom I forgot who me is. I soon came to my senses through the help of people I met on here, through Reading others replies and through posting my own questions. I have been lucky to meet and be with two wonderful Doms, who have held me safely. They put my safety first, and were willing to make me feel safe and secure... And that is why I met them ... Because they were understanding of my fears and concerns, they cared before they had even met me. One relationship didn't work out due to other issues and the other I am with very very happily. I'm still learning, still a newbie but I'm a very happy newbie whose glad she came to her senses before she got hurt. Tazallie | |
| 6 Feb 10, 1:54 PM Cassius UK, 3 yrs |
I entered the scene a little later than most, read a lot and thrashed about somewhat! But the first time I laid flogger on bum it was as if I had come home - it felt so natural. Practise senseless acts of beauty. Edited 6 Feb 10, 2:16 PM by Cassius | |
| 7 Feb 10, 8:44 PM peppermint3105 UK(BA), 2 yrs |
For me? Scary, Scary, Scary!! I made some serious errors, very early in replying to memo's promising me the earth, the experience, and Yes, I gave out far too many personal details, and that led to a pretty nasty experience, that kinda put me off for a while. Thanks to another newbie, I am trying again...much more cautious and careful this time. | |
| 2 Mar 10, 2:30 PM Novices_R_Us UK, 2 yrs |
Here, on the Other BDSM Web Board, @singleguy has started a thread which asks I'm wondering whether I'm suited to all this?. 7 posts in
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