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| 4 Feb 10, 5:07 PM Fitznicely UK(B), 2 yrs  |
Mine tends to cross the line from cheeky to disrespectful when she gets carried away around our friends. It's a look in her eye that tips me off, mostly. There's a glint of playfulness when it's cheeky or she knows she's gone too far. Out and out disrespect, there's a hard edge to the eyes - sort of like "yeah, I actually mean this one" - which, admittedly, soon goes when I give her "the look".
You know they say it's always the quiet ones you have to watch? That's me. | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:08 PM bighappygoth39 UK(WS), 2 yrs  |
Cheeky = when your sub stifles a snigger as you try very hard to walk with grace while wearing your crippling thigh high,pointed toe,four inch heeled boots.... Disrespectful = when your sub says 'why did you even bother trying,I could walk better in them than you'....... | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:17 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
I attract cheeky subs  Cheeky is fun, and cheerful banter is cool as far as I am concerned.However if they disrespect me, they do not last long I must say! Senno Ekto Gamat | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:29 PM Cinnamon_Tart UK(S), 8 yrs |
Well bollocks. I've got a seriously disrespectful submissive then.
What we are today comes from our thoughts of yesterday, and our present thoughts build our life of tomorrow: our life is the creation of our mind. (Buddha) | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:30 PM salacious UK(NN), 2 yrs |
I've a very cheeky personality with the people I respect and love, when I feel safe to be myself, I'm quiet around those I don't know or like. I don't feel I want to subdue my personality to be 'perfectly behaved', because even though I define myself as submissive, I'm still a cheeky bugger and always have been (hence not defining myself as a brat by the definition I've come to understand, because I'm not cheeky for a particular effect, just because it's me being me). I'd be mortified if I ventured into the realms of being disrespectful though, because my intention is to have fun and laugh, not upset anyone. I like to please people, not make them mad or sad. fear and lust bind me like rope I lose control as You take it from me | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:36 PM anncat UK(ST), 7 yrs |
A bit of cheeky banter, light hearted and fun is a tonic for all i think, but there is a line of course. Personally if I showed deliberate disrespect to my Dom, then something has broken between us, and needs sorting.
As for the Dom's mood, well.... as mentioned it can be kinda tricky being a sub | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:48 PM BadWulf UK(TA), 6 yrs |
Only time i have trouble with tainted is when beer is involved! On the OP, hmm well not sure what you mean by disrespect, to take it literally why would you wish to be with somebody who didn't respect you, there couldn't be any D/s in any event. So you don't actually mean that, you mean something that makes you feel they have gone to far in that instance , which of course will be entirely down to you and your mood at that point n time methinks. So yeah you will be inconsistent, but so what, keeps them on their toes and is a Doms peregoative.
Rank hath its privilege - Wulfy
My, what sharp teeth I have. | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 5:57 PM capital_dee UK(NW), 2 yrs |
I don't do bratty or disrespectful. Life's too short. Cheekiness - apparently so, but always with a smile. | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 6:06 PM Belasarius UK(M), 8 yrs      |
Agreed - goes on to see that, almost all the time, one detects from body language or tone of voice whether exatly the same remark is meant cheekily or with disrespect. Patience is bitter - but its fruit is sweet. | |||
| 4 Feb 10, 6:12 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
I certainly don't want someone who'd let me be disrespectful of him. You can be playful. I don't even think I'm particularly cheeky. I'm probably just dull. |
